I had protected sex ejaculated i didnt notice any leaks or tears in the condom. The next day she saying she feels funny. a few days before she has been throwing up what not. Had sex on the 20th of the month her period was supposed to start the next day. She took a test 4to 5 days later and it says it positive. everyday after this she has been having bad cramps so bad she cant move with back pain. Its only been a total of 9 days all together. she says she had 2 miscarriges already. she has never felt pain like this before. she is to mad to go to the docs whats is going on ?
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It sounds to me like she could possibly be pregnant but I am a little suspicious that she says it's positive when you had protected sex. I don't see that there's really any way you could have gotten her pregnant, but she could be having a false pregnancy instead. Have her take another pregnancy test because she could not be positive so soon after having sex, especially if it was protected. Does anyone else have advice?
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She smokes and she is really over weight too. What do you think all the cramps are? This all she is telling me that's wrong. she was throwing up before the 20th and her last period started 20-21 April. Does that mean anytthing?
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She smokes and she is really over weight too. What do you think all the cramps are? This all she is telling me that's wrong. she was throwing up before the 20th and her last period started 20-21 April. Does that mean anytthing?
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Ok i have another question i did some research. If you Estimated conception by the first day of your last cycle. Her last period was 4-20/21-09. the conception was around 5-4-09. and the estimated due date is 1-25-09. I don not understand any of that. she had sex back in march un protected. we didnt have sex until 5-20-09 with protection. I am really lost with whats going on! Does any of this make any sense at all? Please someone repond!
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Hi Miked123, I'm sorry that no one has gotten back to you about this but I do have a couple questions for you just because it sounds like this is a highly unusual situation. Now that it's been a couple of weeks, is your girlfriend showing more signs of being pregnant? Has she taken a pregnancy test yet? I would say that you should insist on getting one so that you know what her status is because even though she's mad, she should do something about this. That, or see if someone else will talk to her. I hope that this helps. Keep us posted!
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OK let me see. No not really that i can see. i only notice that her breast look different that about it. She was always saying she hurts on one side of her body then she hurting on the right side of her body. I say this she once said he taught it was someone elses child. We had sex protected sex the day before her period. the next day she states she feels funny. 5 days later she is pregant. But i can rememebr be for we had sex she was really sick and throwin up before i dont know if it from just being sick or she was already pregnant. So about a week or so passed she is have a lot of pain that make her cry hunch over. I say you get pains but nothing that feel like you are having. saying the feel like stabbing her. the few days after that she passed a quater side blood clot that was reddish brown. she stillsays she had pains off and on but it never when iam around.I never saw the test at all she took like 3 but i never seen them. She smokes at least when i see here 2 or 3 times. she dont excerice and she is pretty over weight. but her stomach feels really hard to only be a month pregnant. she dont sleep works 12 hours everyday no days off . and she sleep about 3 hours to just staying up all night. I even tried using a pregnacy caculator that got me no where it was only used by her last period. if that was the case then i am not a factor. but there has be no changes in her she looks the same. she said her boobs hurt one time she always was complaining about pain thats all that i can think of thank you for your time
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Do you have a messager i can talk to you on? I have some much to ask and talk about ? I would feel better if i could get some one to talk to me !
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Hi Mike, unfortunately I don't have a messenger. I think that for this kind of problem, you should maybe talk to someone who lives closer to you anyway, because it sounds like your girlfriend is being dishonest with you, at least in my opinion! Do you think there's a therapist you can see or a friend you can confide in about this? I think that it might be a good idea for you to do that because I think that your girlfriend is treating you pretty badly. Is that something you can do?
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I am telling you i feel the same way. She has been bleeding for 6to 7 days. the she says i think i am about to misscarry. since she is a li over a month preg with twins. she says she had about a 2 inch clot come out of her then a few hours later another 2 inch clot come out of her. she asks me what do you think is wrong? I say i am not sure. I said it sound like you are having a period. or you could have miscarried. But she dont want yo believe she said the told her that you can have a period while you are pregant. i said i anot sure at that but why would have a period and release and egg if you are pregnant. Then today she says she cant feel her lower half of her body she fell to the ground. They say she is dehydrated and she has the flu. she says she has been loosing weight. but its from not eating. i am thinking you do not starve yourself while you are preganant and i know she know it. so she says the medics told her her chances of having a stoke was high. so here is a list of meds the medics gave her
fseudoepherine
ibuprofen
Guaifenesin
penicillin(is allergic)
That what they put her on. I dont see this getting anywhere. All my close freinds are saying this isnt right. you need time to implant and pregnacy isnt in 4 days. i mean the more i tell them the more they think the situation isnt right. So i dont know. I told her you have to eat to make them survive if you dont you will loose them if she hasnt already. SO i dont know thanks your your time again at least i am not the only one that think she isnt telling the truth about any of this !!
fseudoepherine
ibuprofen
Guaifenesin
penicillin(is allergic)
That what they put her on. I dont see this getting anywhere. All my close freinds are saying this isnt right. you need time to implant and pregnacy isnt in 4 days. i mean the more i tell them the more they think the situation isnt right. So i dont know. I told her you have to eat to make them survive if you dont you will loose them if she hasnt already. SO i dont know thanks your your time again at least i am not the only one that think she isnt telling the truth about any of this !!
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I am telling you i feel the same way. She has been bleeding for 6to 7 days. the she says i think i am about to misscarry. since she is a li over a month preg with twins. she says she had about a 2 inch clot come out of her then a few hours later another 2 inch clot come out of her. she asks me what do you think is wrong? I say i am not sure. I said it sound like you are having a period. or you could have miscarried. But she dont want yo believe she said the told her that you can have a period while you are pregant. i said i anot sure at that but why would have a period and release and egg if you are pregnant. Then today she says she cant feel her lower half of her body she fell to the ground. They say she is dehydrated and she has the flu. she says she has been loosing weight. but its from not eating. i am thinking you do not starve yourself while you are preganant and i know she know it. so she says the medics told her her chances of having a stoke was high. so here is a list of meds the medics gave her
fseudoepherine
ibuprofen
Guaifenesin
penicillin(is allergic)
That what they put her on. I dont see this getting anywhere. All my close freinds are saying this isnt right. you need time to implant and pregnacy isnt in 4 days. i mean the more i tell them the more they think the situation isnt right. So i dont know. I told her you have to eat to make them survive if you dont you will loose them if she hasnt already. SO i dont know thanks your your time again at least i am not the only one that think she isnt telling the truth about any of this !!
fseudoepherine
ibuprofen
Guaifenesin
penicillin(is allergic)
That what they put her on. I dont see this getting anywhere. All my close freinds are saying this isnt right. you need time to implant and pregnacy isnt in 4 days. i mean the more i tell them the more they think the situation isnt right. So i dont know. I told her you have to eat to make them survive if you dont you will loose them if she hasnt already. SO i dont know thanks your your time again at least i am not the only one that think she isnt telling the truth about any of this !!
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Hi Mike, I'm really glad that you're feeling normal at the very least because it really sounds like this girl has you convinced that you are crazy or at least not being rational or fair when she's clearly the one who's being manipulative! I hate to ask this because it sounds kind of rude but do you think that you would actually leave her because she's treating you badly? I don't intend to upset you with the question so understand that's not my intent, but would you?
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Well the news is I put it all out there cause i am just tired of all the pains everyday and she isnt doing anything about it. So i told her i said for one i never known someone to have a period in april and didnt have a may one with out april being your last. 2 i told her we had sex protected and not tears or no breaks. had sex then in 4 days you are pregnant. She takes a test and cant show me i have asked her for 2 days to send me a test and she cant. all the bleed and all the symptons this cant be normal. week or 2 pass and you pass a brown and red quater sized clot then the she spots then bleeds pains so bad she falls to the ground. then goes to dubai for a check up and the stick a rod up there and say there is twins all in the time of one month. and i ask for a copy of the bill and to see what you see and then i she tells me what you think i am a liar? to answer your question it is yes. I told her no proof then leave me along. its been 2 days and she still hasnt shown me anything at all. all i get back in return is i think i am going to go my way and you go yours but i still will send you so i have been waiting. It too easy to send a test and get it over with. I understand what you are saying. i mean a lot can happen until you are ready to have a child but all this does not add up at all. I know i may have been mean but it too freaking easy to do a test. Now today she says she is bleeding again if i say its not normal she i will get mad at me and say tell me you love my twins and i still have them in me. how does she know and she has not been to the doc at all. Send me a message back if you like
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Mike I think that what you've done is very smart. I think that if what she's been doing what she's saying, then she should be able to furnish proof somehow. You do have to protect yourself in this relationship so I'm glad to hear that you're doing that. Please keep me posted on what happens, okay? I hope that everything works out for you!
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Well now after all this i got a test yesterday. but it took her long tho. I told her that i am going to take a DNA test due to the fact i dont believe that you can have protected sex the day before your period and be pregnant 4 days later. I feel she was already pregnant and when the sex happend. So thats the route i will go. I just say four days after sex you take a test what if it was just late. i think she knew the whole time. She had her last period on april and the may one never came. i wil keep you posted
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