I am 48 and still hold my partner first. I have always wanted to learn about my body and have a natural experience. Yes, I need to unlearn what has worked, yet, I also want to experience the same as I do for my partner.
I'm a 35 Yr old woman and still can't orgasm unless my toes are pointed legs are spread out pushing into the mattress.
Also does anyone else feel like theyre holding their breathe somewhat, it's like youre literallt pushing towards an orgasm.