wat do i do? i had a fight with her and i basicly dumped her. then i had everyone telling me how gud it was that i left her and how gud it was that she isnt screwing with me anymore then my recently ex best mate sent me a message saying thx for..... and i called him and said some things nd he just laughed at me and forced her to say hurtful things to me. i love her and have been with her for over a year and she says she loves me yet she has screwed me over the past few weeks as he has been ignoring her and i have been trying to repair our relationship. she recently promised she was going to dump him for treating her the way he has and i turned around and told her to either end it with him or me and she assured me she was going to dump him as she nolonger wanted to be stuffed around. yet i get a txt an hour after he was ment to get dumped sayin "sorry cant do this anymore cant deal with ur sh*t im sorry" then i decided that she fukd me around used me and got bored with me so she gave methe flik coz my mate is better looking and apparently better in bed than me. yet now i have told him only that while he has not been with her i have been theone keeping her warm at night now he refuses to speak to her yet again. i warned her of how sh*t he treated girls and now all i think is that the pretty girls just wanna be treated like sh*t. nd now i am still talkin to her and callin her but i feel like the b***h and i feel like she is now incotrol even tho she is the one who has hurt me yet i dumped her so im still the bad guy. i just dnt understand what i did that was so bad to deserve all this he ignores her for weeks on end nd i sit there and she falls for me again then he comes bak and makes up some BS excuse for why he has been ignoring her and so it is all ok. she said to me last night that she feels bad for being with me yet wen she is with me she wants to be with me yet wen she is with him she wants to be with him. and wen i txt her wen she is with him nd im flipping out coz she has told me she is ending it with him then gets in his car and goes to his house i wander wtf do i do so wrong? i give her the world nd she wud rather be treated like a peice of meat than be loved by me?
Hi Guest,
It sounds to me like she is being given the "green light" to "have her cake and eat it too" (so to speak). In my opinion, it sounds like she is playing the both of you, and NO MATTER how deep you "think" your feelings are for her.... cut her loose. I say this because if she is doing this to you NOW.... in a non committed marriage relationship... more than likely she will do it if you do "repair" the relationship, and you end up in marriage with her.
You must also consider... if she is with someone else, there are chances of her contracting a sexually transmitted disease and giving it to you. Virgintiy is something (in my opinion) that is a PRECIOUS gift, that is given to one person, because the bonds that it "fuses" between two people is INCREDIBLE. That is what it is intended for.
I would cut her loose, give yourself time to grieve, and repair and let the right woman come into your life. Not all women are like this, and if the woman has respect for you and herself, she wont go this route... just a thought.
Hizgrace
It sounds to me like she is being given the "green light" to "have her cake and eat it too" (so to speak). In my opinion, it sounds like she is playing the both of you, and NO MATTER how deep you "think" your feelings are for her.... cut her loose. I say this because if she is doing this to you NOW.... in a non committed marriage relationship... more than likely she will do it if you do "repair" the relationship, and you end up in marriage with her.
You must also consider... if she is with someone else, there are chances of her contracting a sexually transmitted disease and giving it to you. Virgintiy is something (in my opinion) that is a PRECIOUS gift, that is given to one person, because the bonds that it "fuses" between two people is INCREDIBLE. That is what it is intended for.
I would cut her loose, give yourself time to grieve, and repair and let the right woman come into your life. Not all women are like this, and if the woman has respect for you and herself, she wont go this route... just a thought.
Hizgrace
I sound like she isnt commited to either of one of you guys. She still young and still wanna have fun. Im pretty sure 30% dating women and girl have PLAN B guy. U learn to Loved her, and i guess now...its time for you to learn how to let her go. Always do what makes you happy. Dnt wait and fight that love battle if you both are not on the same page. Anyone can say they love you and they would do anything, but to PROVE and ACTUALLY Doing it is different. jux my opinon. Hope u learn from ur own action and experience and move on... Good luck ...
Take her back or if not message me and I'll go out with her