Had an abortion but i wanted to keep the baby,ma mum was so mad at me cuz i was too young,i wanted to keep da bby so badly,my bf was here wit me and he wantd the bby 2...wat should i do to deal wit dis problem,i already had da abortion
Hi babypink,
Abortion is emotionally hard, no matter what the situation was that led you to it. You didn't say how old you and your boyfriend are, but I guess I know what your mom was thinking - she wants you to have a future, possibly get better education and job. You two would need a lot of money to provide a good care for the child, especially if your family isn't there to help you out. At least the good thing is that he is there with you, but what's done is done - you need to start looking toward your future. And a part of doing this is dealing with the emotions you feel about the abortion - depending on the clinic where you had it done, you should have been given at least some guidance on how to get counseling after the abortion. It might take a while for you to deal with all this, but if you have a follow-up scheduled, I think you should at least then ask for ways to get to a counselor,
Wish you all the best,
Nicole