I’m 13 and I’ve never had my period before. So for the last 3 days, I have been noticing that I have had a lot of bloating in my stomach, and whenever I go to use the bathroom, I have brownish colored stuff when I wipe. There is some blood too. I don’t know if it’s my period or not, because there’s brown, stringy stuff. I have a lot of pain in the stomach and my belly is really bloated. I haven’t told my aunt yet, because I’m scared. I don’t know what to do, please help!
Hi Lizzie
Don't be afraid. Becoming a woman is an enormous change in your life and starting your periods can be very scary. If you are worried, and can't speak to your Aunt about these things, look on ***this post is edited by moderator *** *** posting of web addresses is not allowed*** Please read our Terms of Use and read some information that other young people have shared. There are many web sites that might give you facts that will help stop you becoming stressed.
Hormones are all over the place now, and you will feel unusually sensitive, moody, and maybe cry for no reason. This is quite normal and as you become familiar with these feelings you will understand how best to deal with them.
Don't ever feel alone or frightened. Also if you are getting tummy ache, ask for help in what best to take. Don't try and suffer alone. Millions and Millions of girls all over the world are probably experiencing the very same symptoms as you. Join the Club and I wish you all the best. Congratulations of becoming a young woman.x