I have lost my virjinity 2 years back with a guy whom i do not love now. It was a forced relation & he continued doing it with me several times. I am now in love with a really nice guy & he is not aware about it. I really dont want to tell him too.
Please just guide me whether it will create any problems for me after we have physical relation in future ? Can i give any other reason to him , because i just cant afford to loose him only for this reason. :-(
Please just guide me whether it will create any problems for me after we have physical relation in future ? Can i give any other reason to him , because i just cant afford to loose him only for this reason. :-(
if you don't want to tell him about your previous relationship then he won't know a thing about it, (unless he is psychic but I highly doubt that!)
I don't understand what you are concerned with: is it infection, virginity or emotional trust/relationship issues?
I don't understand what you are concerned with: is it infection, virginity or emotional trust/relationship issues?
Hello,
When you said "It was a forced relation and he continued doing it with me several times" this suggests to me that he may have raped you or abused you in some other way or maybe both. If this is the case your current focus should be to get help for yourself. Rape and abusive relationships have long lasting effects on a victims life. You are important and deserve to have relationships with mutual respect. If you were raped in your previous relationship you can contact RAINN, they are a national network for abuse, rape and incest. The hotline is open twentfour hours a day seven days a week. You can contact them at !-800-656-HOPE or visist the website at www.rainn.org The website has a link "find a counseling center" on the left side bar where you can locate a local your local rape crisis center.
When you said "It was a forced relation and he continued doing it with me several times" this suggests to me that he may have raped you or abused you in some other way or maybe both. If this is the case your current focus should be to get help for yourself. Rape and abusive relationships have long lasting effects on a victims life. You are important and deserve to have relationships with mutual respect. If you were raped in your previous relationship you can contact RAINN, they are a national network for abuse, rape and incest. The hotline is open twentfour hours a day seven days a week. You can contact them at !-800-656-HOPE or visist the website at www.rainn.org The website has a link "find a counseling center" on the left side bar where you can locate a local your local rape crisis center.