I have always listening how my friends had great orgasm with boyfriends. I have a boyfriend also and we have sex already three months. For these three months, I have never had an orgasm, so I was thinking he does not know how to satisfy me. Then I changed boyfriend and still I cannot experience this. I would like to know if there is something wrong with me or with them since I have never had an orgasm with boys.
That is not so rare and common problem among sexually active girls and women. You have not report if you had ever made yourself to have orgasm while you are masturbating. If you did, I understand it could be a little bit embarrassing, but is important to say if everything is normal with you or now. I think there are two major problems women face that prevents them from the immensely enjoyable experience of orgasm. They are the female's mental attitude, and their partner’s inability or unwillingness to spend the time and effort during lovemaking. Off course, they need to learn the necessary techniques. I am saying this because many women cannot have orgasm only with vaginal stimulation. The fact is there are not so many nerves into your vagina, as clitoris has. That is why you should talk to your boyfriend and tells him exactly what do you like, if he cannot conclude it on his own. You have to say and spoke openly to get exactly what you want and what will make you have an orgasm with boyfriend.
It probably would have made more sense if your people monitoring the web site did a little more proof reading when people write in.
im 18 and ive been with my boyfriend a year and we've tried EVERYTHING and i can't ever get the feeling i have when im by myself idk if its because i know what i like and he's kinda guessing.. or what, but its getting to the point he's thinking something is wrong with him and im to the point that i think something is wrong with me! i want answers and i want them now, i want amazing sex like other people talk about!
i have had sex with my bf many many times.. but during our love making time i have NEVER had and orgasm.... so when he is gone i masterbate, to get the job done .. you know. but he thinks that he pleases me sexually but he doesnt . im not sure if i should tell him or not, and i need to find a way for me to have an orgasm during intercourse.
OMG. im in this too im 17 my boyfriend and i have been dating 11 months and i fake orgasms its that bad he doesnt know im to embarrassed to tell him.
we have talked about it and tryed to find what i do like and what i dont i havent even had a orgasm on my own! seriously is there something wrong i love the guy to bitz and try and think about him romaticly pleaseing me when we have sex it just doesnt work,.
we have talked about it and tryed to find what i do like and what i dont i havent even had a orgasm on my own! seriously is there something wrong i love the guy to bitz and try and think about him romaticly pleaseing me when we have sex it just doesnt work,.
Your boyfriend should give you oral sex concentrating on your clit. As he lick and sucks on it, he should pay atention to what is turning you on and what is not by the way you response. I will have an orgasim if he does this right.
i thought i was the only one! i am 19 and i have never had a orgasim! i have been with three men and my current bf i love very much. tho latley he has been angry with himeslf and always dissapointed in sex because i dont orgasim. i just dont know what to do. Materbating doesnt help either??????
ok so i cant orgasm with my bf either. i can on my own and he hits the right spot its just i cant seem to actually orgasm. i think its me and he thinks its him. he feels bad that he cant get me to but i dont really care. its not that important to me ive never orgasm with a guy before so to me its not a big deal. Is there something wrong with me? i dont know how to orgasm with him and make him feel like he can do it. or should i fake it? and if i should how do i?
i had the same prob with my gf, i found it was cuz i wasn't going fast enough.
i gave her some great head then went to sex and after she was comfortable i starting really layin it on her fast and out of no where she had 3 orgasms in a row. LOL u just have to fine out what gives u an orgasm
i gave her some great head then went to sex and after she was comfortable i starting really layin it on her fast and out of no where she had 3 orgasms in a row. LOL u just have to fine out what gives u an orgasm
Wow I really thought i was the only one with this problem but after reading all this im glade im not the only one. I've been dating my bf for about 10 months now and i have never had an orgasim with him or any of my other ex's in the past but i can have them on my own perfectly fine. Is it true that if u think u can't have one ur body wont let u have one bcus u think u can't? If that is true then i need to starthing thing possivitly then. I also herd if u masturbait to much that doesn't help either i am currently not masturbating at all for a long time and see if that help with my problem, but i just want to know if there is anything else i can try that might help me have an orgasm and before u say sex toys they don't do nothing for me either.
Same here.......Im 18 and never had and orgasm with boys. I ben dating since i was 17. felt inlove with my ex, we had plenty sex and i did plenty tricks but never had and orgasm. so i wud fake it all the time. i thought it was him untill we broke up and i stared dating all over again. but still i never found pleasure. so right then n there i knew it was me to make sure i kept trying it with different boys n still no pleasure for nme. i even masterbate which is nasty to say n thats when i felt it. i try it with females n i gets n orgasm. but i want to feel that way wit boys why is im not getting n orgasm???? is something wrong wit me?????
tell a guy to eat you out and make you cum!!!
Hiii. I'm 20 years of age. My problem is.... I've been sexually active since 13 and have had enough sexual partners. I have never been able to reach orgasm even on my own. I have tried every toy going. I get so close I can feel it coming, then all of a sudden its gone. I have been with my partner 4 year now and he cant make me either. ( but he doesn't know) I've faked it everytime so now I cant even share my issue wit him. I dont even get close to having one wit him but it would break his heart if I told him after all these years :( . Wat is wrong wit me? I'm so close, I can feel it but nothing. Is it over the top if i went To my doctor? Or too shameful? I really need to know wat am missing. Am so depressed by it. Any advice to help? Can i take something to make me reach one? I'm so close. I have even tried different kinds of porn. Please help me x