I have recently met up with a guy i knew from high school we lost contact for about 6 years and now im involved with him sexually but no strings attached as weeks go by i find out more and more about him and it gets worst and worst he has had sex with 20 + girls and he is only 21 wat has worried me i trust him well trusted him and everytime we have sex we dont use protection now im worried how many girls has he slept with as well as me and has he used protection with them?
im going to get tested for std's but do i ask him to tell me the truth and should i tell him wat im doing.
my only other concern is my ex partner whom i was with for 6 years would have it if i do because i was sleeping with him as well as this new guy how am i going to tell him i gave him diseases if i have.
what am i going to do i hope im all clear!!!!
im going to get tested for std's but do i ask him to tell me the truth and should i tell him wat im doing.
my only other concern is my ex partner whom i was with for 6 years would have it if i do because i was sleeping with him as well as this new guy how am i going to tell him i gave him diseases if i have.
what am i going to do i hope im all clear!!!!
First of all, you don’t tell anything to anyone until you are tested on STD’s and it’s clear you have some infection. Do you have some symptoms of having some infection maybe, have you noticed some changes? If so, then you go to your gynecologist for the check up and when you have results then you’d know what you should do next. If you are clear then there is no need to talk about it to your partner you had sex with after this guy that had sex with many girls before you. But you should know that you must use the protection when having sex with a guy for the first time, as long as you know nothing about him, just for your safety.
If it happens that you have some infection, then you talk to both your partners as they have to be treated as well.
If it happens that you have some infection, then you talk to both your partners as they have to be treated as well.
How long have yopu been having sex with him?Cause it takes up to 3 months to be able to tell if you have something (HIV,AIDS) or maybe even longer.