"Ok so I'm 13 turning 14 in December and my bf is 16, 17 in November."
.. Well I'd concentrate more on your Grammar than on Sex! ..... It is absolutely atrocious! Also, he could not have rubbed his finger ON your Vagina, because it is Inside You. He rubbed your Vulva.
Fingering is a part of the sexual experiences, its okay to do it even when you're young, the younger the better, doing it when you're old is pointless, it doesn't feel as nice & it just makes you look like a w**** at that point..
Sex should totally be around 15-16 where it can be perfectly fitting for the young, overall if you are going to go with it make sure both you and your partner is willing to spend the rest of your life with this, there are a ton of teen parents who makes videos on youtube about their average life, maybe that can be a possibility if you ever end up being a teen parent, course you get hate from pricks who can't mind their own business & not realize sex has no limits & if both partners love each other to the good extend, there is no wrong in young sex.
Overall, fingering is okay no matter what age, discovering sexual interests at young ages is.. a nice way to get pleasure at a young age.
I think every girl with the right mind would kill to find out about sex at a young age, only to feel how pleasurable it is, when girls are at a young age their vagina is tighter & moister than most older females vaginas, it also feels the best when you're able to handle the sex and fingering at a young age.
My experience was not with a girl, but with another boy. We were both 14 in our freshman year in high school. We made a bet that the loser of the pool game had to kiss the winners ass. Of course I lost. Nothing happened until one day after school we went to play at the recreation center. We were playing basketball for about 2 hours. So we went to Kool down, when he said to follow him into this rest room that was closed for being remolded. He said it's time to pay up and to kiss his ass. We were friends since 7th grade. So I thought he was kidding and asked him if he was serious. He said if I didn't get on my knees before he pulled his pants completely down, then he would tell all our friends that I tried to suck his penis. He was friends with them longer than I was, so I knew that they would believe him over me. One reason is that I have long blonde hair and thin. There were some girls always saying that they wish they had a waist as small as mine. I was only 105 lbs. So I gave into him. Got on my knees and I kissed his ass. I was about to get up when he says your not done yet. You are going to suck my penis. I was afraid so I sucked his penis doing everything he told me to do. He told me to swallow his cum, so I did. Needless to say I am not friends with him anymore or friends with any of the other boys and girls. We are now in the 11th grade. I have new friends and a girl friend and I am still afraid to say anything.
When I was 12 years old I started having unprotected sex with a 17 year old girl who live in our building. . I ejaculated sperm into her every time we had sex. If you do have sex just use a condom. I think you are old enough to have sex with him. Just be safe. Sex is good at any age over 12 I feel.