what if u used condom ?? and had sex 3 times inna day,, i wont be prego right??
MYbebest to go back to no under covers stuff and keep it to kissing hugging no underclothes heavy petting you are both going to get too keen and carried away . How long have you been dating ? Is this a long term relationship you ve got to wait 36 months and you ve already gone too far . Maybe tell him you are not ready yet fir the physical or emotional relationship . And all that means -he may have seen porn and thinks it’s normal to progress -it’s not right yet it’s too far too fast .. go back to being friends and cool it off with this guy . He is encouraging you to go towards illegal sex too young - at 15 according to this society you czn discuss what contraception to use and use it on your 16th. If he respects you he will wait .
I was going to say the same thing to her!
You’re still 13 and very young
You shouldn’t involve yourself in such sexual acts with a guy ,it won’t last for long you’ve a whole life ahead of you ,you’d regret it ,so please don’t go any further don’t sleep with him
I promise you you’re not ready it’s just pleasure and pressure okay focus on more better things there’s enough time for that when you’re much older
How does it feel for a penis to enter you
Well now that statutory rape and your bf is a pedo
Yes, but condoms are NOT 100% repayable!!! So if I wear you. I would only play around instead of have full sex. Just to be safe. Leave the full sex for when your older a d are willing to have a child. :-) thx
Y are u answering to somthinf nack in 12? She's probably 23 now
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AMEN TO THAT, YOU ARE AN UNDERAGED MINOR AND HE CAN GET INTO TROUBLE DOING THOSE THINGS. YOUR MOTHER SHOULDN'T LET YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND, YET ALONE SHE LET'S THE TWO OF YOU GO INTO YOUR ROOM. I GUESS SHES YOUR CHAPERONE, IM JUST SAYING!
STAY A CHILD AND MAKE FRIENDS LIVE IN A CHILD'S WORLD AND EXPERIENCE BEING A CHILD FIRST AND ENJOY YOUR CHILDHOOD FIRST AND FOREMOST. YOU'LL BE GLAD THAT YOU DID THIS.I DON'T MEAN TO DAMPEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS YOUNG MAN... YOU SEE I WAS RAPED BY MY BROTHER AND I HAD A TRYING CHILDHOOD AND DIFFICULT RELATIONSHIPS WITH GUYS. I WAS PERMISCUOS I HAD TWO CHILDREN AT A YOUNG AGE. SOOO TAKE IT FROM ME WAIT LITTLE GIRL WAT AT LEAST UNTILL YOUR'E 17 OR 18 OR UNTIL YOU GRADUATE FROM SCHOOL. PLEASE!
u cant get preg over fingering hope this helps
I totally agree! Though I’m not judging you. Please be mindful at such a young age you don’t know as much as you should about sex and all the consequences that can occur. I lost my virginity at 16 and I regretted it immediately after. I’m 22 now and I have a wonderful man and no kids I’m saving that for when we are financially stable and you’re so young girl enjoy your life without all the sex because when you’re older you’ll have your whole life to do that. I know at that age temptations and feelings are so pressuring because your curious ab everything! I know this is like a year or more later that I’m saying this but be smart and don’t anything you’ll later regret.
I am quite late, but I hope this can help anyone else who finds this post looking for advice. For the record, I am 16 and am not a virgin. I lost my virginity at 14. My opinions may change later, but for now, I consider myself smart and mature for my age. I come from a religious family so I am very aware of the stigmas surrounding sex, but I have forged my own opinions separate from theirs. I see sex and related pleasures as something to be appreciated in our biology. sex to me goes beyond the romantic status and that pleasure can be shared among many people. For me, I want above all to be appreciated by the person I have sex with. But most of all, I believe that a person's sexual nature is something to be interpreted by them alone.
The issue comes with you being 13. Firstly, NEVER feel bad about experiencing normal desires. Your body makes hormones and no one has control over that. So before you take those feelings to another person, ask yourself, are you mature enough to understand that your opinions on sex may change? You can have sex now and not regret it or you may find that it was the right decision. Either way, I think that you can learn from this experience and grow in your understanding of morality and self-satisfaction.
For his age, he is 16 and turned on, we all are, not to say we are stupid or reckless, but the thinking can cloud our minds sometimes. I was with a guy who was 17 when I was 14, (not the guy I lost my virginity with) and we called it off because of social pressure. We, then and now, agree that we were good together and that our relationship was consensual and on the same maturity level. He is my good friend and I have no regrets about giving him my first kiss.
Again, it is your maturity level. The other comments are referring to their own brash, immature decisions that they now see the fault in. I can say that mine was not brash or immature.
Back to age... I met my boyfriend later that year. He was 16 and I was still 14. We are still together now, going on a year and a half. We lost our virginity pretty early in our relationship. To put it plainly, we were, and are two turned on motherfuckers, and he being 16, made him hyper a turned on mofa. So we did some stuff and he did manage to talk his way into a few things, but I enjoyed it. The only thing that felt a little uncomfortable was breaking the threshold of having someone touch me in those ways, despite having fantasized about it for ages.
You need to see for yourself whether you like it or not. I did and I was glad that I chose him to be my first. I live with him, and even if we aren't together, I can't imagine not being sexually active. The best advice I can give to you is to live. See what happens in life. Just be safe and smart about it. Use birth control always and if the person has an unknown sexual history, then wear a condom for STDs. And PLEASE if you want to investigate any further into this, Go See A Proper Scientific or Medical Source. Doctors know way more than anyone online does, including me. EDUCATE YOURSELF. You are 13 and considering this so you and your significant other need to know about sex and the risks and benefits and weigh them for yourselves. I saw some really ignorant comments on this thread so please, to anyone reading this. Knowledge is power. It is your ticket to a good life. Ignorance is not bliss. Wisdom can only come from experience. Go out into the world and make something of your time here. And go f**k somebody!
Some writing errors I made since I typed this on my phone:
Sex to me goes beyond the romantic status. I believe pleasure can be shared among many people.
...we were, and are two h***y motherf*****s, and he being 16, made him a hyper-h***y motherf*****r. (Censorship).
Something I didn't include: Don't have sex to make someone happy. Be selfish and selfless at the same time. Give and receive the pleasure of sex. It is far more rewarding that way.
Heh, Kate Smith, You cannot get you pregnant just by Fingering. If that was true, we could get pregnant just by masturbating. You have a lot to learn about sex.
Hi Guest. It sounds like you like your boyfriend fingering you but you are not really getting excited about it. If you don't already masturbate, you need to start doing it, and do it often. Try different wasys and work out what really feels nice. Then tell you bf to do that to you. Have Fun, Love Chelsea.