hello frnd.....i want to say something happen in my life......pls hear hit.....i love my girlfriend and we r shared everything and she never live without of me and she can do everything for me....if i say's to her to go and die...she will do it without any fear...oneday we r in alone..i have a full sexual mood....so i ask to her she is accept my feeling and have a sex with me....and then days are moved....another one time im ask to my girl friend she is accept.....and in my sex feeling are also increased......so i ask to her again and again.....she decided to think about me im not loving her....im lust about her...so she was break my love and gone away......and now i realised my fault and now i feel my true love and now i understood what i love and lust.....really i feel very bad and even all days im crying about her and my love....now i really love her very truely but she is not with me.........so i request u to pls dont have a sex with ur girl friend before marriage....
Hi honey! 1st of all when you are younger and male your sexual NATURAL feelings can tend to take over your mind and body! It isn't your fault, it is nature - we are on this planet to have children! So it wasn't the fact that you didn't love her - because you obviously do - but that your natural urges got the better of you and she felt badgered into having sex and it frightened her! As both of you sound like you are brought up in a strict culture, whe would have thought it was a strike against her - as a pure woman! She doesn't understand that it is normal and not really your fault! As this isn't taught in teh school system or by families! You weren't taught boundries and she was honor bound to protect the most sacred thing a woman has! So I think it would be good or you to write to her and explain how you feel and apologize! It will make you fell better, and don't be so hard on yourself OK? Sometimes you just can't ignore natural impulses And we ALL sin in some way or other! And also know that in the bible Lust is more about greed than about sexual involvement OK? Good luck and health honey!