Hi,
So i have a boyfriend and i really do love him more then anything in the whole world, but our relationship is, well, broken....
So... i'll start at the beginning...
The start of our relationship was very hard emotionally on me, he was going out with one of my friends but apparently he loved me but when he finally had the chance to be with me he said that he couldn't be with me. He did ask me out eventually and i couldn't help myself i had to say yes because i do love him.
The middle of our relationship was really good, a few bumps here and there but nothing major.
After a about 10 months i started seeing a therapist because i do have big problems, and its ever since then i guess that our relationship has started to go up in smoke.
Now it's over a year later and i still do love him. BUT he is insensitive to how emotionally unstable i am, and is always saying the exact wrong thing when i am in a good mood. For example a few days ago he said the only reason he was attracted to me was the fact that i'm so different to other people. We are always fighting and its really getting me down. He says i don't support him when i actually do, i help him for job interviews and such in between our study for our uni courses, so that caused a huge fight and i literally just walked away from him and went home for a few days.
I'm gonna be honest and say that our sex life is rather active and it does get rid of the arguing for a while but it just eventually comes back.
I don't really know what kind of answer i'm looking for here, i guess i just really want someone to help and give advice. I guess the last thing u need to know is that in all honestly i do love him and he really does love me, we have talked many times about engagement and i know he isn't lying, because he is the worst lier in the world.
I just want help and advice as how i could make this better.