Hello. Im a 17 year old girl and im still a virgin. Im having problems with masturbation because i masturbate more than the normal, i feel like i want to do it more often and this is causing alot of physical and mental problems (knee pain, back pain, unable to memorize things and feeling tired all the time) i need some one to help me get rid of this over-masturbating habit ! Im waiting a reply
Masturbate "more" than normal? Do you know the norm for masturbation? Everyone feels that way about him/herself. You don't have to feel your actions are abnormal. If you think it is affecting your life adversely, then only you can help yourself. But some words that may help, follows..
In case you come out of your control, do not make the mistake of feeling disappointed in yourself. Be forgive and renew your resolution to be abstinent for a new stretch. Remember, everyday is a new day. Every new chance you get is a new way to prove yourself.
I'll tell you a mantra that will have an immediate effect on your problem. But you'll have to believe in it. And yourself.
"You don't have to SUPPRESS your desires. Just keep your urges UNDER CONTROL. You will release when you have to, and it will be worth it."
Godspeed