This is to all the sexually addicted men who posted, and yes you do have a sexual addiction. How you would know that, is to try to stop the pornography and masturbation and sex and you can't. Especially those who have been doing it since youth. Anything that holds your mind captive is an addiction. I know it probably makes you feel good that you have found so many (miserable) others doing the same thing. The blind leading the blind. Has anyone ever thought about the fact that what you think and dwell on, is what you become? Of course when your mind is constantly on sex, your body will produce more sperm than normal. Then you feel that it is only natural to have such urges, that you think need to be rightly fulfilled. First of all, no man's balls have ever exploded because they couldn't release. It is all in your mind. I know it can be uncomfortable at first, until you retrain your mind to dwell on more proper, honorable things in life. It is very simular to a woman that breastfeeds her baby. She keeps producing milk as long a the baby is nursing. When she wants to wean the baby she doesn't breastfeed anymore and what happens? The milk stops producing. The more you continue in this cycle the worse and more unsatisfied you are going to be until one day you will find yourself doing things that you never thought you would do. Do you think it will stop with masturbation? No, you will eventually become dissatisfied and need more. This is what kills your true relationships, which is something you are really wanting anyway. I'm sure many of you already know what I'm talking about. You are not meant to be wild dogs in heat. Yes, we are sexual human beings and that can be a wonderful thing when there is self control, but for it to take over your every thought, and aspect of your life, is a shame. Men, there is more to you than that! You were not created to live this way in bondage of your sexual desires. Man, what you are missing!! I know deep down that you are very lonely and empty and you might not be aware of it yet, but that is the very reason you are doing these things. Break Free Mighty Men, I believe in you!!!
Hi do you have any background to back up your claims, or is this just a rant??
I hear you brother, I hear you.
I shall mend my ways.
I just bought a pair of sandpaper mittens to help me on my journey.
But we will really have to work on that Kingfreze guy, he's got it bad ;-)
I shall mend my ways.
I just bought a pair of sandpaper mittens to help me on my journey.
But we will really have to work on that Kingfreze guy, he's got it bad ;-)
I knew there were some Mighty men still out there!! Way to go brother. You will not regret it.
Knowing you njoynlife, sandpaper mittens would turn you on ;)
I don't like the sound of you working on me :o :(
I don't like the sound of you working on me :o :(
Yikes, spinning ceiling fans, pink cowboys hats, spurs and now and paper mittens........hehe >;)
OK, its time I come clean with a few things...
I'm addicted to food, water, carbonated beverages, preventative maintenance on my vehicles, grocery shopping, cooking, grooming/self-cleanliness, urinating, defacating, yawning, stretching (mainly in the morning but I've been known to do it throughout the day), scratching things that itch. I've battled uncontrollable urges to sneeze and cough but never tried to fart while sneezing or coughing. I'm also addicted to news, weather, television, music, movies, e-mail, lights, radio, shooting sports (with guns), exercise, and watching the road while driving.
I'm sure if I really think about it I could come up with more things that hold my mind captive but then I'd develop another 'addiction' so I'd better go think about something else. Hey, I know! I'm gonna go watch porn and rub one out!
I'm addicted to food, water, carbonated beverages, preventative maintenance on my vehicles, grocery shopping, cooking, grooming/self-cleanliness, urinating, defacating, yawning, stretching (mainly in the morning but I've been known to do it throughout the day), scratching things that itch. I've battled uncontrollable urges to sneeze and cough but never tried to fart while sneezing or coughing. I'm also addicted to news, weather, television, music, movies, e-mail, lights, radio, shooting sports (with guns), exercise, and watching the road while driving.
I'm sure if I really think about it I could come up with more things that hold my mind captive but then I'd develop another 'addiction' so I'd better go think about something else. Hey, I know! I'm gonna go watch porn and rub one out!
Ninja, did you ever try sneezing or coughing while pissing?
I've always wondered if that rubbing compound they use on auto paint would be useful for polishing your rocket. I think you should get some and try it while you're rubbing one out. Let us know how it works.
I've always wondered if that rubbing compound they use on auto paint would be useful for polishing your rocket. I think you should get some and try it while you're rubbing one out. Let us know how it works.
Hey Ninja, To be captive to something is to be controlled by it. So if all of those things literally control you than yes, they are addictions which is pretty unfortunate for you. But, if you're trying to make the point that there are so many other things that we are addicted to that seem more "acceptable" or less obvious, you are absolutely right. I'm just saying that all in all, it is a shame we go through life loosing our focus of the things that really matter most, and just zone in on the things that are just robbing us of true contentment and happiness. You take care ninja, I believe there is way more to you than what you are portraying on the outside. Thanks for the comment. Merry Christmas!!
Maybe its about time we stopped ridiculing jx on this one. He's entitled to his opinions on this and we shouldn't really gang up on him (however much fun it may be :-S ).
One thing I will say though is, I've read that an orgasm every day is good for your health - it keeps the prostate flushed out and helps avoid prostate cancer; along with other things of course.
I don't think its right that people like yourself take the moral high ground and tell everyone to stop altogether, but there is of course an argument that it shouldn't be an addiction that drives your entire life. Like most things, if you do it in moderation it won't hurt.
One thing I will say though is, I've read that an orgasm every day is good for your health - it keeps the prostate flushed out and helps avoid prostate cancer; along with other things of course.
I don't think its right that people like yourself take the moral high ground and tell everyone to stop altogether, but there is of course an argument that it shouldn't be an addiction that drives your entire life. Like most things, if you do it in moderation it won't hurt.
Hey Kingfreze, You do have a point. I guess that is why I used the word "addiction" because then the actions are no longer yours to control, but they start controlling you. Like I said earlier is how you know that, is that you can't stop even if you wanted too. And also what I said earlier about "what is in your mind" while doing it. That will eventually get out of control because it won't be satisfying enough. Charles Manson started off with pornography and masturbation. He was interviewed before he died and admitted that. He started when he was very young. He let it get so out of control that it started controlling him and you know what he did? I just don't want you guys to distroy your lives that way. You have tremendous worth. You know why? Because there has never been, never will be anyone on the face of the earth that was created to be "you"! You are created to have special gifts and a special personality and heart for a purpose far beyond what you could ever imagine. Don't loose sight of that my friend. You take care. Merry Christmas!!
Yeh a merry Christmas to you too :-D