i am 15 year old and last week i had sex with my ex boyfriend we used a condom but im not sure if it spilt, and am not sure is i could be pregnant i wouldnt have abortion even though it will ruin my life, i think it is killing another me which i produce lovely.... i couldnt tell mymum if i am beacuse she was the same age as me when she caught pregnant with me. i have been feeling depressed beacuse now he dosent want nothink to do with me... what do i do if i am and how do i tell my mum?
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Okay, first things first, if you are unsure as to whether you are pregnant, it would probably be the best idea as to go to the supermarket/store and pick up a pregnancy test.
Based on the results, work it out from there.
There are 2 main options.
POSITIVE: If your test is positive, they you will have to consider whether or not you wish to involve family members. Asd you have said, abortion is out of the picture, but if you are unable to care for the child, or just cant deal with it at this point in time, i would urge you to consider it. Not just for your sake, but for your unborn baby. As you are under the age of 16, you are allowed to have a secret abortion, where no one is told but the doctors.
Or you could simply tell your mother of your worries. She is your mum, and she loves you, no matter what the news you give her is. You simply need to buckle down and let her know is it is genuinely bothering you.
Try sitting her down with a cup of coffee or tea and tell her you've been stressed and scared over a silly mistake you have made, then go from there.
NEGATIVE: If the test turns out negative, dont believe you are out of the clear just yet. Take the test about a week - two weeks later, just to be sure. If it remains negative, then you're fine and life can carry on as normal.
Hope this helps, and best of luck to you! x
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