Can anybody help me? I'm 14 going on 15 and I share a room with my sister and I can't get any privacy in my house not even in the bathroom really and I'm too afraid to stick my fingers down there because what if I put them in the wrong hole? what if my finger nails hurt me? I'm just to afraid to master-bait because I don't want something to go wrong and I don't get privacy in my house and I'm almost never alone. I have no idea what to do and I don't want to ask my mum about it because I don't want her to know. Any ideas??
Hi annajuice321, you shouldn't be scared about exploring your own body as everyone has to learn some how.
First of all there is only one hole big enough to get your finger in other than your butt hole, where you pee from is way to small to even get your smallest finger in, you will actually going the your receive very little sensation from fingering actually the most sensitive area is your clitoris what is just under the hood at the top of your labia, when your alone take a hand mirror and sit on the floor with your knees bent up and spread apart then place the mirror so you can see your vagina and spread your labia, what you will see starting at the top nearest your belly and working down are under the hood a small pea sized spot that's your clitoris, small on the outside but a mass of nerve endings inside that spread around the whole area, as you work down your see the urethra opening where you pee from and below that is the vagina entrance it's self.
Start playing by licking your fingers and either go in circles over your clitoris or side to side or how ever feels good for you applying more pressure as you do untill it feels good.
There are many different ways to masturbate and everyone finds different things feel good to them so there isn't really a right or wrong way.
If you would like more help or don't understand something feel free to ask questions and I'll try to explain clearer for you ☺