hi everyone, i have jsut come across this site...i feel so very tired and broken....i have had 2 missed miscarriages since July last year...my last one i had to go in for an erpc (evacuation of retained products of conception) on April 1st...April 30th i took a pregnancy test and it was positive...however last weekend i started bleeding a bit and having cramps....it has all stopped now and ihave convinced myself we have lost another...ive got a scan in the am and i feel so lost. I had a healthy little girl in 2007 with no complications at all....a text book pregnancy and never dreamed this would happen..now it looks like it has happened 3 times....i say thi cos i have no symptoms....u look for things to make u feel better but i guess this might have all gone wrong again...jsut wanted to share...as i feel so alone...my husband is fantastic and people are supportive but its still a lonely time...if i have lost this one i cant bear to think of trying or having unprotected sex for a while as its so hard to keep going through....thanks so listening.....love to you all xxxxx
Hi honey! I just wanted to tell you that JUST because you have had a miscarriage does NOT mean you are going to have another one! And in the 1st trimester spotting or sometimes a lighter bleed is quite common! If you look at many of my posts the majority of the topics are around 1st trimester bleeding! Thus many women thinking they had an actual period - they didn't! It is from an increase in hormones and is called Vaginal Bleeding! Have you been told if you have an Ovarian Cyst - have you ever had a transvaginal ultrasound? IF the bleeding or spotting starts again - raise your legs, do NOT have sex at ALL, and don't lift anything! Just take it easy OK? Are you taking prenatal vitamins? If so keep on, if not start! Also when you go tommorrow - and if you see your doctor, ask about increasing your Vitamin D - this has been recently proven to help with women in early pregnancy - against infections and threatened miscarriages! I am sending you a HUGE hug and ALL the luck and love in the world! Please lwt me know how you make out OK? God bless honey!
hi,
Well, i just got back from the early pregnancy assessment clinic....and i saw a 6 week baby with a heartbeat! Im a bit numb still as i saw a heartbeat at 6 weeks last time and then baby didnt make it..but i trust in God that He will see me through and He is walking by my side.
They think i have bn bleeding and cramping because there was another pregnancy sac in there (a twin pregnancy) but we couldnt see anything inside that sac...so we will have to see how we go...im praying so much that i carry this baby to full term...i just need to keep positive. Ive got a scan in 3 weeks so we will see how i go....oh i so hope it makes it till then...my last 2 babies havent made it past 7 weeks so i hope this one is a fighter! I cant quite beleive there was a baby with a heartbeat in there!!! thankyou for bn there xxxxx
Well, i just got back from the early pregnancy assessment clinic....and i saw a 6 week baby with a heartbeat! Im a bit numb still as i saw a heartbeat at 6 weeks last time and then baby didnt make it..but i trust in God that He will see me through and He is walking by my side.
They think i have bn bleeding and cramping because there was another pregnancy sac in there (a twin pregnancy) but we couldnt see anything inside that sac...so we will have to see how we go...im praying so much that i carry this baby to full term...i just need to keep positive. Ive got a scan in 3 weeks so we will see how i go....oh i so hope it makes it till then...my last 2 babies havent made it past 7 weeks so i hope this one is a fighter! I cant quite beleive there was a baby with a heartbeat in there!!! thankyou for bn there xxxxx
Hang in there honey! I TOTALLY understand why you are worrying, BUT you just saw your babies heart beat!!!! YAY!!!! XD So think of the positvie OK?! As I mentioned honey, this is VERY common, I had it and so have MANy other women on here! HUGE hugs and love sent to you! And if you ever need and want to talk, just ask away OK?
thankyou so much, i lost a ton of blood last night and a huge clot which when i phoned the early preg unit they said was the other pregnancy sac which had bn on the scan yesterday...im didnt have any pain and am hoping and praying baby is ok...thankyou for bn there for me its wonderful to jsut b able to download....i didnt have this last time and it was so very hard.
Love and hugs Louise x
Love and hugs Louise x
Give yourself about 3 more days and then take a home pregnancy test - this will answer some questions for you - depending on how quickly the stick turns color - as it can prove to you that you are still pregnant!