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I’m 17 years old and ever since I started having sex more and more with my girlfreind my sperm has reduced since I got with her I’m just wandering should I be worried about not having kids ? I don’t know what this is but it does worry me thanks in advanced 

When you say having sex more and more how often are you talking about and what are you comparing the amount to?

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As in every Saturday / Sunday we have sex but I can’t tell if I cum in her ( she’s on the pill ) we have sex a lot about 2 times everytime we see each other sometimes for half hour sometimes for an 1 hr and sometimes we go on for 20 minutes but I can’t put it all the way in because I have a sensitive penis and a tight foreskin when I get a erection.
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So are you actually asking the question for not knowing when your ejaculating inside her or is your question about decreased semen levels being produced because your reply is about something totally different to what you first asked about?
Even though she is on the pill doesn't mean she can't get pregnant as no contraception is 100% effective alone, you would also find using condoms will help take the sensitivity away and will also stop your tight foreskin trying to retract during intercourse, condoms should also be worn to protect against STD's an STI's unless you have both had a sexual health check.
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I’m asking about both it just came out and yes I am asking about my semen levels since I’m worried about being infertile
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The amount of semen you produce won't mean your infertile that's down to the amount of sperm in the semen, how can you tell your producing less though and when are you actually comparing the amount you produce to?
As to why you don't feel yourself ejaculated I'm not sure, could be linked to you sensitive penis head an tight foreskin.
Have you tried stretching exercises to make your foreskin looser?
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Yes I pull my foreskin back for 30 seconds then put I back for 5 minutes in and out the bath I use produce a full tea spoon and now I barley produce half
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A teaspoon is about average but if you masturbate or have sex regularly or get dehydrated that can cause a slower production rate, are you comparing the amount you use to produce to before you started having sex and only masturbated?

The more times you can stretch your foreskin a day the quicker it will loosen and to help keep your foreskin soft and supple while doing it try massaging baby oil into your foreskin, to help lose the sensitivity when the glands are uncovered try to keep your foreskin pulled back as much as possible because the more the glands can dry the less sensitive they become.
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Yes I used to produce more when I use to wank and had no sex and so by keeping my foreskin u mean as in wearing boxers with it out ? or Just nude with my foreskin behind my glans ?
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How often did you use to masturbate to ejaculation and was you able to feel yourself ejaculated then?

You may find it uncomfortable keeping the foreskin back with boxers on to start with so start off by doing it with nothing on to start with or even try keeping it back at night when you sleep.
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Around about 2 times a day and ngl sometimes when I pull it back it does hurt but I’ll take ur advice and start to do that what I’ve realised about my glands is that some of it’s grey and some of it’s raw red ?
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Also how long should I keep my glands out for ?
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Do you still masturbate the days your not having sex?
The reason your glands are sensitive and hurt when touched is because they have been covered for so long, it's the same as if you graze the top layer of skin off you knee if you touch it then it's painful.
The colouring your on about is normal and will change the more you keep the glands uncovered, when you first pull your foreskin back gently bathe the glands to get rid of the slimy feel and let them air dry, there is no real time limit to how long you keep the glands uncovered just the longer you keep them uncovered the faster the sensitivity wears off, if you notice any swelling around the foreskin while it's back return it to it's normal state straight away.
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Yes I do should I not be doing that? And ohhh okay I’ve just had a bath for about 30 minutes and I had my glands out for the whole time now I should let the air dry it should I try sleeping with my glands out tonight or tomrrow ?
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Try cutting back a bit on it, it's always better to let it to air dry if you find it uncomfortable to touch and it's up to you when you start leaving it uncovered. I had the same problems as you but younger and that's how I managed to cure my sensitivity an now I can keep it back 24/7 if I want to.
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