Hi I'm a 15 year old boy and I need help to please my girlfriend. She is amazing and she jerks me off and gives me head, once we had sex, as you see she does everything I won't and I feel like I need to do more for her. I have fingered here and she likes it but I know she doesn't love it, I tried eating it but I failed. please help!!!!
I know you asked this question a while ago, so I presume you've learned something by now, but ... Oh my, where to begin? I shouldn't deny you the pleasure of stumbling around in the dark like the rest of us, learning by trial and error, but here goes:
First, learn what and where everything is. I mean, they won't let you drive a car until you know which is the brake and which is the accelerator, right? Study pics or drawings of the female anatomy (with labels) so you know for sure where everything is and what it does, and maybe read up on serious techniques to give her pleasure. DO NOT RELY ON PORN! That stuff is designed to bring you off as fast as possible, and rarely includes the gentle art of actually LOVING someone. Remember that her body contains a real human being with her own fears, doubts, desires, fantasies and expectations. The best thing you can ever do is develop a good way of communicating with her -- what you like, what she likes, and what works for both of you. Sadly, none of us is telepathic, just yet. It takes time and experience to get it right; but mostly, it takes communication. Don't be embarrassed to TALK to her as you make love with her. Sex is the most amazing dance the two of you can ever do. Seriously, it's like a delicate dance you are doing with each other, and a lot of the same awarenesses apply.
Second, take seriously your role as her lover - and as her friend. They are not the same thing. Be a considerate and gentle lover; WATCH her, LISTEN to her, TALK to her, ASK her. LEARN (and remember) what she likes and doesn't like. LEARN how to please her. HER pleasure is always more important than YOURS (and don't worry, you'll get lots of that, too). Part of it is treating her body the way you want her to treat yours. Expect her clit to be as sensitive (more so, actually) as your penis can be, so treat it accordingly. Be CREATIVE in the things you try, but be her friend, and don't hurt her. Explore every inch of her as a place you can stimulate -- front, back, top and bottom. From the back of her neck all the way down to her toes. Kiss, lick and suck on anything you can. Each girl is different, and each will have their own "special places" that really turn them on. A word here about her "G-Spot" : It is the rough-feeling place in the front upper inside of her vagina, kind of just "behind" her clitoris. It sort of feels like the roof of your mouth. This rough spot is meant to excite both her and you by stimulating the coronal ridge of your penis to bring you to orgasm so you can ejaculate your sperm inside her. But you can massage it by hand by gently using one or two fingers inserted into her and curled upwards (make sure your nails are cut short) to lovely, intense effect, and likely bring her to orgasm from this alone, although you can gently nudge her clit with your thumb at the same time! In concert with her clit and nipples etc., you should be able to get her there on a regular basis. But remember, her orgasm is not just driven by her clit (or her nipples, her belly button, her anus, her mouth) or even her G-Spot. In short, the physical sensations you create with your fingers and tongue are only a PART of what goes into her orgasm. Most of it is actually in her head. Her BRAIN, her MIND really drives her body (yours, too) when it comes to orgasms. The brain takes the sensations you create and mixes them with memories, fantasies, images and other stuff in her mind to begin the process that culminates in orgasm.
Finally, true intimacy is not just about touching and being touched sexually. Remember i mentioned that you should also be her friend? The compassionate, and uninhibited sharing of feelings, thoughts, dreams, hopes, fears and desires is the true meaning of Intimacy. Try to find a few moments after you cum, to cuddle her and share your INSIDES with her, then your OUTSIDES will handle themselves just fine. Good Luck, and happy exploring to both of you!