Hi, I'm glad that we have this page to share. I feel and know where you're all coming from. Recently, something similar happened to me. Previously in my lifetime I met a lot of handsome men and kept my distance to simply friends.
But this time, I don't understand. This tall, dark and handsome guy, age 27, seems to bother my heart everyday. At first, I tried very hard to ignore and tell myself, I'm turning 50, and it's not right. He's like a nephew for me to take care of...
However, he kept showing me his videos in places he visited, where it shows he is alone enjoying the beach views, sceneries and wearing only his beach shorts and splashed for my eyes to see is his broad shoulders and tempting body. I melt everytime I see them but imagine the self-control to maintain the distance.
Several times, I noticed him trying very had to get close to me and feel him wanting to kiss me. But I so desperately tried to make funny jokes to lighten the moment. One time, I ignored him and he no longer could control himself, he was a bit mad and got almost so close to me and I really felt the manly heat from him that I don't know what to do and just maintained my silence.
It doesn't end there, since I see him everyday, I often noticed him looking my way. He always finds a way to be close but I kept on finding ways to avoid him and struggling to escape. Some friends told me, he wants to join me for lunch, breaks, and in going home. So I had to tell them, I prefer to have my personal time and instead of going home fast after work, I changed my schedule to stay say for an hour, just so to avoid having personal talk with him.
Friends, if you may please advise me, I need them badly these days to maintain my heart control. I know it's not right. I want him to just simply treat me as a friend and I wish the best for him to find the younger woman, who will love him.
So what did all that mean? Do you want him or don't you? You are both adults if there is no legal reason you should stay apart then go for it.