im a 23 years old single parent of a 5 years old girl, im now 13 weeks pregnant and i must say that was what i wanted for a long time, i discussed it with my boyfriend and he was actually happy about it, we started the process of making sure i get pregnant. everything was ok until recently. he started behaving strangely. we were actually staying together until i got a great job offer in another city, about 280km away. things we fine and i conceived during that period of relocating. recently i went to his house and found that my stuff were stashed somewhere. i confronted him and now we decided to breakup not only because of that issue but due to the past things he did. he even suggested i abort the bay of it was something i was considering but hearing it coming from him was so painful. i dont want to be a single mom of two kids at my age.i feel so guilty already, coz we planned for this baby and now i have to take its innocent life. will i forgive if i go through with abortion?
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You should really think about your decision, as only you can make it. You planned this baby so take responsibility in your actions. You can do anything you put your mind to. Who cares about that jerk! How awful for him to try and get rid of everything you guys had, and it was probably out of anger, but nonetheless he's still a mindless id**t. Imagine if you didn't have your 5 yr. old... and you have a wonderful job. If things were going to work out with him then they can certainly work without him. And it sounds like you're struggling with your morals and ethics. A lot of abortionist do not ask if they'll be forgiven or even acknowledge that they're taking an innocent life. I would suggest counseling. Only God will know if you'll be forgiven, no one on this Earth is 100% sure of His answer to you. But outside of the religion aspect, there is a life at stake here. One that was by no means an accident nor did s/he ask to be here. I know people always say it, but there really is adoption. Just don't make a hurried decision because you never know how you'll feel afterwards. Some women are so depressed while others aren't. It just depends on your character I guess... At 13 weeks so much has already developed. I don't know how people go through with it, I really want to understand without judgment because that is not my place. So whatever you decide, I hope you can live the rest of your days with it. And when you do answer to God, make sure you stand behind it! Also try Mirena afterward. Creating a life with someone whom hasn't made any commitments to you is crazy! Belive me I'm experiencing it at this very moment. It really sounds like the exact same situation you and me have. Except for the whole abortion thing. My child is way more important than some ole fool i was dumb enough to get with! The love I will receive from my child will be 10x greater than he could ever give me and I'd rather keep that than him! :-P
I always thought of abortion along the same lines as suicide. With both cases people think it's the end of the world, life would be too hard to go on and afterward it will all get better, they have no choice, they seem to "think it out" but in actuality if they just take the time to see that nothing is ever as bad as it seems, but as with both cases they end it. And after that you can never go back, it can't be undone.
I always thought of abortion along the same lines as suicide. With both cases people think it's the end of the world, life would be too hard to go on and afterward it will all get better, they have no choice, they seem to "think it out" but in actuality if they just take the time to see that nothing is ever as bad as it seems, but as with both cases they end it. And after that you can never go back, it can't be undone.
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