Hi, I have been haveing sex with my boyfriend for about a year now and for about six months of our relationships i had no problems, lube or no lube it worked out and no pain. Now i don't know if i keep getting infections over and over or just one for a long time, but it hurts to have sex now cause my vagina skin is very sensitive and i mean ripping sensitive like i get cuts all the time, with lube or no lube. Might not even be from sex just maybe the slightest itching and my skin rips, i really don't think this is normal, i have been to the doctors before and they just tell me theres nothing wrong and tell me to use lube but i reallly think there is somthing wrong i don't find this normal. PLease if you can give me and explanation it would help.
You could be having a reaction to the lube, or it is quite possible that if you are having unprotected sex his semen is a little to acidic or you are having a reaction to his body fluid. If you use condoms you could be allergic to the condoms depending on what type you are using and it has taken you skin a little time to react to it. If this is your first sexual contact with this reaction then you should find a dr who will listen. A lot of dr's push women aside because they think the reaction is normal, but if it is not normal for you then it is not normal. You will have to find a dr that REALLY cares especially if you are paying for the visit.
or you could have an STD also known as HSV Herpes Simplex Virus Type 1 or 2. You should ask for two types of blood test the type 1 which is usually cold sores on you lips but it can also be down there too and you should ask for the type 2 which is usually down there. If your getting little scratches or red small sores then you most likely have an STD 1 in 4 people have one and you can give it to your boyfriend if he didnt give it to you already. You should always use protection.. Ask him to get the blood test too. Good luck:)