hi,
im 26 years old and a girl and ive never kissed a boy or been physical with a boy or romantic with one.
ive never been on a date and im very shy and never had a love life.
i am a virgin and i want to remain one till i marry. even if i marry at 31 i want to be a virgin
i value my virginity and physical virginity. like a year ago something bad happened. i was in a bad mood and one thint lead to another and i had an injury to my vagina area. i punched myself really hard upwards in the crotch area and i felt something happen. it was very painful in the crotch area, the vagina and i felt like a breeze as if my hymen disapeared. i know i had one before that that was completely intact. i dont masterbate and never used tampons. so it was from this. i felt a large tear and extreme pain in the vagina area for weeks. the pain got more dull but now a year later it still hurts so much, i havent done anything to the area since then. i dont masterbate or use any objects. i am about as virgin as an 11 yr old. nothing goes on there
but it really hurts still, especially if i bent down or go into like a SQUATTing position something feels weird and different over there in the vagina area. i can feel the adsence of the hymen. im super sensitive and i sense everything. its so bad i dont know how to bend down anymore it feels weird and my vagina hurts more when i go into the sqatting position or to bend low on the floor
it also hurts when i shower or water goes there
i did feel a tear that day and like my vagina inflated or something i dont know how to explAIN. maybe i suffered a vagina innjury, since its a muscle? maybe the muscle teared and i broke my vagina. muscle takes sometimes years to heal if torn or hurt
why does it still hurt? i know from experience im a virgin. but from the physical perspective it dosnt look like it.
how is it possible that there are girls younger then me who have sex every week and have no pain and theres girls my age who have had babies and months later continue have sex with no pain and all i had was this minor accident and i dont even masterbate and the pain from the hymen is still hurting me a year after.
maybe it was than tearing the hymen, maybe the muscle broke? like the vagina itself broke or tore from the impact
i cant stand the pain, i feel it all the time and i try to block it out. maybe i should take anti inflamatory pain killers?
im 26 years old and a girl and ive never kissed a boy or been physical with a boy or romantic with one.
ive never been on a date and im very shy and never had a love life.
i am a virgin and i want to remain one till i marry. even if i marry at 31 i want to be a virgin
i value my virginity and physical virginity. like a year ago something bad happened. i was in a bad mood and one thint lead to another and i had an injury to my vagina area. i punched myself really hard upwards in the crotch area and i felt something happen. it was very painful in the crotch area, the vagina and i felt like a breeze as if my hymen disapeared. i know i had one before that that was completely intact. i dont masterbate and never used tampons. so it was from this. i felt a large tear and extreme pain in the vagina area for weeks. the pain got more dull but now a year later it still hurts so much, i havent done anything to the area since then. i dont masterbate or use any objects. i am about as virgin as an 11 yr old. nothing goes on there
but it really hurts still, especially if i bent down or go into like a SQUATTing position something feels weird and different over there in the vagina area. i can feel the adsence of the hymen. im super sensitive and i sense everything. its so bad i dont know how to bend down anymore it feels weird and my vagina hurts more when i go into the sqatting position or to bend low on the floor
it also hurts when i shower or water goes there
i did feel a tear that day and like my vagina inflated or something i dont know how to explAIN. maybe i suffered a vagina innjury, since its a muscle? maybe the muscle teared and i broke my vagina. muscle takes sometimes years to heal if torn or hurt
why does it still hurt? i know from experience im a virgin. but from the physical perspective it dosnt look like it.
how is it possible that there are girls younger then me who have sex every week and have no pain and theres girls my age who have had babies and months later continue have sex with no pain and all i had was this minor accident and i dont even masterbate and the pain from the hymen is still hurting me a year after.
maybe it was than tearing the hymen, maybe the muscle broke? like the vagina itself broke or tore from the impact
i cant stand the pain, i feel it all the time and i try to block it out. maybe i should take anti inflamatory pain killers?
Why would you punch your self in the genitals like that? Just askin? Anyways......the lasting pain and uncomfortable feeling that you have had for so long may be that you punched yourself so hard that you may have cracked the pubic bone. This is where you see your pubic hair, the bone under that area of hair. You should really see a doctor and get an exray of the area. I suggest you do this because one day should you ever decide to have a baby, a cracked or upset pubic bone could cause complications when it's time to deliver or possibly thru out the pregnancy as the developing baby gets heavier.
You may have ruptured your hymen thru the severity of the blow, but even thru regular breaking of the hymen thru intercourse, pain and discomfort should quickly go away. Tho you may have broken your hymen by punching yourself down there, you are still very much a virgin.
I am not suggesting this to upset you but have you considered talking to a therapist? Are you upset because you have not ever been intimate with a man and you are taking it out on yourself? Did you bleed after you did this to yourself?
You may have ruptured your hymen thru the severity of the blow, but even thru regular breaking of the hymen thru intercourse, pain and discomfort should quickly go away. Tho you may have broken your hymen by punching yourself down there, you are still very much a virgin.
I am not suggesting this to upset you but have you considered talking to a therapist? Are you upset because you have not ever been intimate with a man and you are taking it out on yourself? Did you bleed after you did this to yourself?
i was on my period and having bad cramps and in a very bad mood. and wasnt thinking straight. dont ask what happened but i get terrible cramps and pms when on a period. i was trying to get rid of the cramps and punching my belly and then i punched between my legs.lol bad story.. but thats what happened
it had nothing to do with being sexual. being that i was having a period, i have no way to know if i bled or not cause i was having a heavy period anyways.
it had nothing to do with being sexual. being that i was having a period, i have no way to know if i bled or not cause i was having a heavy period anyways.
I guess that is not the real issue right now, as the main concern is why you are still having pain in that area. I would really consider an xray of your pelvic region.
My daughter was in a fight several years ago and was stomped on by a steel toed boot. She bled like she had been stabbed 50 times. An exray showed a crack in the pelvic bone. Really not much you can do, it's not like you can set it in a cast, but the doctor can at least confirm what the pain is from. With therapy and proper medication if needed, you will probably feel better in the long run.
My daughter was in a fight several years ago and was stomped on by a steel toed boot. She bled like she had been stabbed 50 times. An exray showed a crack in the pelvic bone. Really not much you can do, it's not like you can set it in a cast, but the doctor can at least confirm what the pain is from. With therapy and proper medication if needed, you will probably feel better in the long run.