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okay so im 14 and i went to a sleepover, one of my bestfriend (a girl) and i got talking what it would it be like to kiss a girl, there were 3 other girls who joined in saying we should kiss, we kissed twice, one was a peck and the other we interlocked our lips. i didnt find it awkward or anything special. i've kissed a boy before and have been fingered. Now at school they make jokes about me, not the girl i kissed, saying im lesbian and all that, but it irritates me cause i dont think i am, or im worried im bi, worried what my friends would think. but im pretty sure im straight, ive kissed more guys and only kissed 1 girl..help me %-)

Hi Sophie, it doesn't mean your lesbian or bi it just means your more in touch with your inner feelings and not scared to try different things unlike your friends that are scared to let in because of people making fun of then like they are of you.
My advice would be to just ignore them and be yourself :-)
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well, you're one of those billion girls out there who actually like to kiss girls!
a girl kissing another girl (or a boy another boy) is just the hormones kicking.
it happens to one and all. even i have kissed many boys and girls together.
you're just trying to prove this world that you're straight because you fear
the social stigma attached with being a homosexual.
but you forget one thing: it's what you're inside that counts.
you don't have to claim proudly to your parents or your social circle that you're
a lesbian. you can stay a lesbian privately while being straight to the society.
that's the way the present world goes out.
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