im 16 years old and i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years in the first year i got checked for stds and was clear however during our relationships i have had sexual intercourse with someone else i have been on the birth control injection for over a year now and i get irregular beeding also i have like a white creamy discharge :S when i have sex with my partner it nearly always hurts but is okay in 1 position. i have never been worried about having an std before but since my partner found out he has been overly paranoid its been okay for over 4 months with no problems apart from the ones i explained also i had a urinary infection and a case of thrush which turned out to be a bacterial infection this was about 6 months ago also i enjoy masterbating. however a little over a week ago i got a sore throat and a couple of days before that my partner has been complaing of the inside of his penis hurting when he has a hard on and being sore at other times aswell causing him to be uncomfortable. i am wondering if my sore throat has something to do with it he said it could be clamidyia or herpes :S:( i am too worried to go to the doctors any advice will be appreciated :)
The only way that you will know for sure if you have an STD is to go and see a doctor and get tested! If you have had unprotected sex then there is a chance that you may have caught something. If you do have an infection and you leave it for too long you could end up with permanent damage, including infertility. Doctors treat patients with diseases every day, and anything you tell them will be confidential! Your boyfriend will also need to get a full STD screen as well - if not just for peace of mind! In the future I recommend using condoms.