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I am currently 24 weeks pregnant, and I will probably die before the baby is born because I have a heart defect. I was also raped, so that is how I got pregnant. Nobody would help me and by the time I realized I was pregnant, from being raped, I couldn't take the morning after pill. So all of you pro-lifers, what about my life? I have no health insurance and have tried numerous times to get help, but to no avail. Basically I have to risk my life because I'm a "w****"...
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 If you have a heart condition, you'll need special care during pregnancy.  Getting health insurance is importaint for your own health anyway, especially if you have a heart condition.  If you dont have any income/ not enough income, there is help available.For example, there is  Medicaid for pregnant women which is a health insurance program wich also offers health care for people with disabilities. There is contact information online and information you can access to find out more. http://www.americanpregnancy.org/planningandpreparing/medicaid.html  (has useful information)

Your health care provider might recommend delivering your baby at a medical center that specializes in high-risk pregnancies. If there are concerns about your heart or circulation or you need to have certain specialists present during labor, your health care provider might plan to induce labor. During labor, you might need monitoring with specialized equipment. For example, a catheter can be inserted into a vein or artery to provide detailed information about your heart function. An echocardiogram can give your health care provider additional information about your heart. Your health care provider might also continuously monitor your contractions and your baby's heart rate. Instead of lying flat on your back, you might be asked to lie on your side and draw one of your knees toward your chest.To reduce stress on your respiratory system, your health care provider might recommend epidural anesthesia for pain relief. If you deliver vaginally, your health care provider might limit the amount of time you push. Sometimes it's best to deliver the baby with the help of forceps or a vacuum extractor. If you're at risk of endocarditis, you might receive antibiotic treatment just before and after delivery.It's unusual to need a C-section because of a heart condition. If you develop an obstetrical problem that leads to a C-section, special precautions will be taken to monitor your heart function during the delivery. These things your doctor/ health team are sure to be discussing with you. Many healthy babies are born to parents with health issues. If you dont have any medical insurance, i would suggest you sort this out first. You need to be discussing your options with a medical proffessional, especially at this stage. As an abortion at this stage has health risks.. you are over half way through your pregnancy already. I can understand that the morning after pill may not have worked, however 24 weeks is a long time to leave it after taking the morning after pill - especially if you have health concerns of your own. Not quite sure how you manage with a heart condition if you have no health insurance! As surely you would need regular health monitoring/ care anyway?

As for the issue of how you got pregnant - this is also something you need to discuss with a professional. I would think at this stage it would be safer to have your child adopted if you really feel you dont wait to bring this child up yourself. At the stage you are at, your baby is already well developed and doctors dont usually perform abortions in later stage pregnancy unless there is a very high health risk to the birth mother. Again.. something a doctor should be discussing with you.

You really need to know how you stand healthwise etc. before you can possibly make a decision either way, as you need adequate healthcare.

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no its not all start at 450 please tell me where you went because around here you are not getting one done for under 450 just saying
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this is so sad im 25 now and 26 wks pregnant from rape and im more afraid than she is because im trying to miscarry. i hope things worked out for you (author) and as for the healthcare professional theres a such thing as sensitivity youve been her age at one point itd be considerate of you to remember that! i dont know what to do i was engaged and hed left for four months during that time i was raped. he said wed raise our baby together and about two weeks ago after him leaving in december i got the" this is an incorrect code etc" recording which is how this pregnancy ended up going on so long. i asked him for an abortion he kept saying its our son please dont kill him which now i know was my choice and my choice only. im afraid to have him and adopt him out because of guilt and if i have him i cant enlist in the military because im a single parent since we never married. i was never a promiscous female so why did this happen to me i tried to do things the right way. will someone please tell me how to cause a miscarriage at 26 wks im 26 wks and 1 day  
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look their is also open adoption you can get pics get to see the baby 2 times a year you can even talk to kids when he or she is old enough to talk please contact me to give you more info _[removed]_ i am a fostermom
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She is right.. adoption is such a great option!  There as so so many people who desperately want families and can't (Im one of them)  don't miscarry your baby!
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i am one of them to thats why i am telling you all this
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The big issue here is with society. I am 30 years old, married and have a decent job but am finding the act of having a baby to come as a huge inconvenience to daily life and my work. I am constantly stressed about how we will make it work after with childcare etc. I get a year mat leave but after that I am having to find something. In the city I live there are 2 year waitlists at daycares. 

Half a century ago women would not need to worry about stuff like this. The world was a lot more child friendly. People were more collective in their caring about raising children together. Children were a blessing; not a burden.

Also, having a child young is also hated upon now. In every other mammal when a mammal is capable of procreating - they do just that. 

What I am saying is that if people were more collective and less judgmental and also less individualistic women would not have to consider abortions so frequently. It saddens me because I know deep down if money were not such an issue all of these unborn babies would be loved and alive today. 
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yes it,s true but think of this if you born that child and you don,t have a regular job and you don.t know how to take care of her/ him you better to have an abortion or you better to give that child to someone else that have a good life and can take care of your baby. If you let that stay in your life and you don,t have the capacity to take care of that then you put your life and the life of your baby in a complicated situation that both of you will suffer. Be practical... But the best way is avoid make love or avoid making sex don.t just think of your lust. But think of the future or the consequences. first think 100x or thousand times...!
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I can't believe I'm reading this c**p. It's disgusting me so much. I just f'in lost my baby at 6 months pregnant. You have no idea how horrible it is to have felt him move, listen to his heartbeat, and have that taken from you. I don't know why my little man was taken from me. It pains me every f'in day knowing I won't get to hold him again. Besides the fact that I'm prolife, it disturbs me that people like you guys are trying to find ways to get rid of a life before its even born that far along. You are depressed? No, dear, I am knowing depression right now. You just are knowing the hardships of mistakes you guys have made. I'm not the best off financially. Sometimes, I'm far from it. Still, I would of made sure my baby was taken care of and loved. There are people out there who can't have children. I know someone personally who can't. Although they said they are fine with not having children, I sometimes wonder how true that is because she'd have made a great mother. It devastated her that she wouldn't be able to even watch mine. You don't want more kids? Adoption is the way to go. Please, don't give me that stupid line again of if I have him I'll want to keep him. Evidently, you aren't even connected to him or her because you want to end their already started life before they enter the world to be with you. Yes, I said already started because they have already formed and moved and suck their thumbs. Their hearts have already been beating for a long time. I'm not trying call names or cast judgement. However, I can't not stop from stating how much this topic disgusts and disturbs me. I'll never get to see my baby grow up or hold him again and you willing want to stop yours from living. You need some f'in mental help. It's destroying me that I don't get to see my baby's face any more and take care of him like a good mom would. You are lucky the life you are carrying is healthy and unknowingly happy you are his or her mom.
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How do you cause a miscarriage at 3 weeks
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You people are just horrible!  People are basically bragging that they've had 3 abortions.   A bunch of murderers you all are.  If you don't want a baby then either keep you legs closed or use birth control.............Yep it's that simple!!!  There are people out there that would love to adopt your baby.  Complete trash you are!!!

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I agree 100% with what you are saying. These people are awful on here. If you don't want a baby then don't sleep around and use birth control.
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Maybe you should get rid of your first one that it wont be so hard i mean your saying its to hard with two kids and your willing to kill a baby kill the one you have now what would make a differnce anyways there both breathing leaving things

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im 17 to and im scared but ik that god gave me this baby for a reason also thee are resources all u have to do is go to them ik it may be scary but its a blessing from god u should think of adoption abortion is in no way a choice in my mind that is ur child apart of u please dont think of it. and this baby didnt lay on his/her back u did and in my mind that bay should not be punished u could give it to someone who can take care of it and give it a better life

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