I want to lose my vaginity medically i.e. by going under the knife or a minor operation. I want to do this because I find it too difficult to let my boyfriend do it for me as I cannot stand pain. Is this posisble and where can I get further advice on this?
hi rash121, you don't need surgery; i suggest you get a nice, smallish sex toy and stretch yourself out. get something made of firm silicone and, after a long relaxing bath and maybe a glass of wine, penetrate yourself and stretch yourself open. It will be fun, and you will have your first experience of deep penetration be erotic rather than medical.