Is it weird that when i masturbate I look at other girls masturbating? Am I lesbian or bi?

No, you are not lesbian or bi, and you say you watch women for educational purposes. This, however, can be misleading and also counter-productive, for many videos are 'performances' designed to arouse (often men). You need to understand how your own body responds to stimulation without the aid of videos.

Each person is different, but the orgasm will come as your arousal increases. Many can orgasm through clitoral stimulation alone, and many also incorporate g-spot stimulation. But don't expect that your orgasm will be exactly the same as another's, especially those who are performing, or putting on a display (often exaggerating some aspects).

Some also use sex aids, but again be careful as they will be different from what a man can achieve, and have the potential to become indispensable.

You have not said what you do at the moment, nor how far you get, but I hope this helps as a start.

Well what I do is I usually touch my clitoris and rub it for a while starting slow and then increasing my pace & pressure. I also usually grind up and down or side to side and that really gets me going. But i only usually get to breathing heavily and that's about it. I don't think that's an orgasm and I want to experience one. Also I don't really know where my g-spot is:/ I kinda just started masterbating because I was curious. But so far so good!!! Any tips for achieving orgasm?

What you are doing so far is fine. How long have you been masturbating? It sometimes takes time.

When you get to the heavy breathing stage, just keep going. You have probably reached the second phase - plateau. Your sexual response cycle has, in fact, four phases: excitement, plateau, orgasm and resolution. You will know when you reach the orgasm phase because you will probably experience rhythmic or sporadic contractions in your vagina, uterus, and anus.

Your g-spot is on your front vaginal wall, just a little way inside, and its texture is different from the rest of your vagina. Experiment with different pressures and strokes. Often it can be done by curling your fingers with a beckoning type motion.

I hope it helps a bit more. Try that, but ask again when you would like more help.

Only for a few weeks. When I get to that phase where I start to breathe heavily it feels amazing and I get so wrapped into it slow down and just focus on the feeling, and then it end:( I don't really know why I stop I think it's because I thought that was it like that was the orgasm, but good to know there's more. How do you recommend me achieving a full orgasm with out stopping after the second stage? Today I used an electric toothbrush on my clit and began to breath heavily within a minute, how do I get myself to orgasm after that ? You've helped a lot by the way

You have been only doing it for a few weeks, so you are doing very well. There may be some that maintain they orgasm quickly right from the start (just maybe they do), but the majority don't. Some women don't orgasm until they are much older. Then there are those that have a gushing or squirting orgasm, but many don't (another subject).

Most important: Don't get too 'goal orientated'.

I am sure your orgasm will come eventually, but you must not worry about it, or it will become harder to achieve. God designed the human body to orgasm! Indeed women have far more nerve endings in the clitoris than men have in the penis. So as a woman you are off to a good start. Remember that your clit (as opposed to a man's penis) has only one known function - pleasure,

Next important: Enter into the enjoyment of the sensations you do have. Relish the experience you do have. Even thank God for them!

The electric toothbrush is a common 'aid' but has not much in the way of variation (compared with your fingers) can be counter-productive in the long-run. You have observed how quickly you got to the heavy-breathing stage. You could find that you orgasm quickly and miss out on the whole build-up experience. The journey is as important as the destination. Also, you may then find that it becomes the only way you can orgasm, and a man will not be able to fully satisfy you when the time comes. I would suggest you keep using your fingers for a time, and maybe use the toothbrush later on when you find you get 'stuck' for a long time at the plateau phase. That may then push you over the top. But remember, you are learning how your own body responds, and you want to be able to use what you have learnt when you eventually get married and sex becomes an important mutual bonding activity.

So keep working on your clit manually, at least initially, for a while, including your g-spot, but also incorporating your breasts.

While all women may have the same number of clitoral nerve-endings, they all have different brains and mind-sets. So keep your mind clear of being goal-orientated. Also, avoid porn. It is illegal for under-18's for a reason. It is dangerous, addictive, and often makes orgasming problematical.

I hope this helps a bit more. [At any time, especially after we come to the end of this discussion, you want more help, you can message me - but you would have to register first]