I HAW BEING EDIT FOR SELF SEX FOR MOR THEN 30YRS IS IT HAM FULL FOR HELTH ? OR ANY SAID EFACT FOR HELTH ? HOW CAN I STOP THIS ? SOME TIME I DO IT MORE THEN 5 TIMES A DAY ....IS IT HAM FOR MY BORNS ON MY BACK ? OR BODY?
In the western world in 2011, doctors agree that masturbation is very normal, pretty much universally practiced by both genders is and actually healthful as it 'keeps the plumbing working' so to speak.
The only way it can become harmful is if you find yourself obsessed with doing it to such a degree that it interferes with the rest of your life and at inappropriate times. For example, you take longer breaks at work than you're supposed to or you feel compelled to stop doing something important in order to hide away and masturbate or perhaps you never "have anything left" for your partner.. In other words, if it becomes an uncontrollable compulsion.. an addiction that adversely affects the way you live your life.
The only way it can become harmful is if you find yourself obsessed with doing it to such a degree that it interferes with the rest of your life and at inappropriate times. For example, you take longer breaks at work than you're supposed to or you feel compelled to stop doing something important in order to hide away and masturbate or perhaps you never "have anything left" for your partner.. In other words, if it becomes an uncontrollable compulsion.. an addiction that adversely affects the way you live your life.
it is not harmful, you will be fine,
but one question, why is your post in all capitals and spelt wrong? no offence though
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I read what JETT9650 wrote. He (or she?) saw that you don't know how to spell words.
Self sex is not bad or harmful at all..
BUT, sometimes we have self sex to keep us busy and to keep us from thinking about other things we KNOW are good for us to do,
but we don't like to do because they are hard for us or just no fun.
Self sex feels very good, but only for a few minutes. After it, we have nothing again. So we just want more and more self sex. Right?
Try this: ONE time when you want to have self sex, just stop. Wait. Ask yourself a question:
Is there something else I should do right now, but I don't want to because it's too hard, too much work and not fun?
Then for just that ONE time, DON'T have self sex.
Look at a dictionary or any book and learn how to write ONE NEW WORD. Just ONE word.
Be sure that you really DID learn how to spell that word !
Then give yourself a gift. GIVE yourself self sex now as a REWARD because you were good and learned something new or did something good that you didn't want to do, but did it anyway.
Learning to read and spell better is a GIFT to yourself that you can KEEP forever. You can't keep self sex. Not at all.
You will get ONE NEW GIFT each day that you can KEEP for your whole life.
I read what JETT9650 wrote. He (or she?) saw that you don't know how to spell words.
Self sex is not bad or harmful at all..
BUT, sometimes we have self sex to keep us busy and to keep us from thinking about other things we KNOW are good for us to do,
but we don't like to do because they are hard for us or just no fun.
Self sex feels very good, but only for a few minutes. After it, we have nothing again. So we just want more and more self sex. Right?
Try this: ONE time when you want to have self sex, just stop. Wait. Ask yourself a question:
Is there something else I should do right now, but I don't want to because it's too hard, too much work and not fun?
Then for just that ONE time, DON'T have self sex.
Look at a dictionary or any book and learn how to write ONE NEW WORD. Just ONE word.
Be sure that you really DID learn how to spell that word !
Then give yourself a gift. GIVE yourself self sex now as a REWARD because you were good and learned something new or did something good that you didn't want to do, but did it anyway.
Learning to read and spell better is a GIFT to yourself that you can KEEP forever. You can't keep self sex. Not at all.
You will get ONE NEW GIFT each day that you can KEEP for your whole life.