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I lost my virginty to my boyfriend about a week ago. We used and condom And were very protected.. But the day after we were foolin around in his bed with no clothes on i know he did not cum fully as were fully around but i no that he does pre cum alot when excitedd.. Is there any chance i couls be pregant from that? The week has passed and ive been cramping and spotting often.. I dont know if its from losing my virgity.. Or early signs of pregancy. Other websites facts seems like it can be either.. I dont know if its me worrying to much and in my head or the real thing...

mornin Jamie,

   Pre cum or pre seminal fluid versus pregnancy is a big debate around here at times. Many think that you can get pregnant by pre cum alone, while others strongly disagree. I myself am on the fence with that one. You say you were "fooling around".....what do you mean by that? Was his penis in direct contact with your vaginal area? Did he actually penetrate you but did not cum? If he was just rubbing around and dripped some fluid someplace other than that area, i wouldn't worry, but if he was inside of you and got excited enough to pre cum, maybe there is a chance for pregnancy.

The best thing for you to do right now is to relax and wait it out. If you miss your period, take a pregnancy test, but i doubt that you are pregnant. That's just my own opinion as i am sure others will disagree.

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You're not the only one who thinks that chances of getting pregnant by one sperm that might or might not be present in precum that maybe was or wasn't anywhere near high enough inside woman's vagina are not minimal, but non-existent. It's a simple anatomy and it's really unlikely that few sperm cells that are of microscopic size can travel all the way up to women's reproductive organs. But some tend to use this as a method of frightening "the young" into using protection and that's really not the honest way to do that.

And Jaime, the spotting and cramping do happen to some women after losing virginity because some have stronger hymens that need few days to heal up after have been broken. The sex was protected, so keep using some form of birth control. There is even a chance that your period might be late because you will stress over this (I know, I tend to myself and it just adds up more trouble).
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