Hi everyone, I am 29 years old and had 6 c sections .I have six kids. after my last babies I gotten on Nexplanon and got off last year in November before she turned 1 in December I started my first period in January between the 20th and the 21st it stayed that same pattern.but the problem is its may and im late 5 days I took 3 pregnancy test all negatives ,I feel light headed all the time and period cramping but no bleeding or spotting I don't have no vomitting or sore breast.I see a little weight gain and im very fatigue .but the could be because I work full time 12 hr shifts im a can and im a mother with kids that are 11,9,6,5,3,1 and on top of that im a full time student in college online .my sex drive ive notice and my spouse notice is extremely high I want sex a lot lately it started at the end of last month and my erge for sex has grown so much this much im not sure whats wrong I don't know rather im pregnant or hitting premenopause I need help
Hello.
It sounds like you're experiencing a complex set of symptoms and changes, and it's understandable why you might be concerned or confused. Let's break down some of the key points:
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Menstrual Irregularities and Pregnancy Tests:
- You mentioned that your period is late by 5 days and you've had negative pregnancy tests. While home pregnancy tests are usually accurate, they're not infallible. It's possible for a test to be negative if it's taken too early or not used correctly.
- Given your history of six C-sections and recent cessation of Nexplanon (a form of birth control), your menstrual cycle might still be normalizing.
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Symptoms:
- The symptoms you describe, like light-headedness, fatigue, weight gain, and increased sex drive, can be attributed to a variety of factors, including stress, hormonal changes, or other health issues.
- The absence of typical pregnancy symptoms (like vomiting or sore breasts) doesn't rule out pregnancy, but combined with the negative tests, it makes pregnancy less likely.
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Stress and Lifestyle Factors:
- Your lifestyle as a full-time worker, student, and mother of six can undoubtedly contribute to stress and fatigue, which can in turn affect your menstrual cycle and overall health.
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Premenopause Consideration:
- Premenopause typically begins several years before menopause, usually in a woman's 40s, but it can start earlier. It's characterized by changes in the menstrual cycle and other symptoms, but it would be unusual at 29.
Given these considerations, the most important step is to consult with a healthcare professional. They can provide a more accurate pregnancy test, evaluate your symptoms in the context of your medical history, and offer guidance on managing stress and fatigue. They can also explore other potential causes for your symptoms and irregular cycle, such as hormonal imbalances or other health issues.