Just try it with a semi, then push it between the thighs. Best doing it in silk boxers. Now try pulsing away
OMG, im so glad i found this. I have been doing this since i was a kid and i can control my orgasm very well with this method, i can chose to take longer to orgasm or take a much quicker time to orgasm. I'm a bit concerned however now that i got a girlfriend its not gonna be long until we have sex and its going to be my FIRST TIME. I see posts from the internet saying prone masturbation techniques can cause erectile dysfunction and inability to reach orgasm during real sex. Can anyone with actual sex experience please help me clarify this?
Honestly, as a youngster, I thought I was a freaky mofo for masturbating the way I do.
For me, leg squeezing (syntribation) is the only way I can get myself off, albeit my preference is to create a head shape from pillows, wrap my legs tightly, and make the event a proper one.
At the start, say 11 or 12, only the wrapping legs tightly and squeezing the pillows did the job.
Eventually, I began to grind.
By the time I was 18, I was like a nymphomaniac - destroying my pillows for hours.
However, like all squeezing techniques, this does not transfer at all well to penetrative sex.
Now, the method that eventually led to me having the ability to function in a more typical manner took time.
If you're ordinary and are sensitive from base to tip, then it shouldn't require too much effort, although there are indeed no guarantees.
I'm not typical, I'm very sensitive around the base and all the way around my prostate region.
For me to train myself, I needed the assistance of folded or wrapped pillows.
I'd wrap, I'd squeeze, I'd grind, and I'd pump in and out of the openening with a condom.
Nowadays, I can climax by pumping away, but for masturbation I must still begin with wrap, squeeze and grind.
As for an ordinary, healthy sex life, an understanding partner will always be helpful.
The vast majority of people have never heard of this. My gf was confused, but was also amazing.
It took me well over a year with her before I was able to climax with penetrative sex, I'd never managed it at all before I met her.
Be prepared for the onset of mild anxiety if things don't work quickly, but please don't give up - you'll get there.
It might well help if you cross your legs tightly to begin with.
Now, I consider myself lucky because sex with my gf is incredible, but so is the very different sex that really can last for hours with head-shaped pillows.
Just keep trying, mix things up if you need to, and above all - do not allow this to knock your confidence or impact your self-worth.
This is just a hurdle. Everybody has them, yours is just a little less common. Who wants to be common?
When the time comes, just be honest with your gf. If there's love then she'll be supportive and will work with you to get things firing.
Good luck.
You need to swap it up, or it could cause problems later on. Use the hand every now and then, you will get a harder erection from this.
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You have hit the nail right in the head mate, legs guys need to mix it up. For me it’s the squeezing and pulsing for hours, but the traditional method has increased the hardness to the legs technique more enjoyable. Now I show the boys, they love watching and playing from behind as I squeezing away. The best is when they go from behind and suck, it’s a dual pleasure. Before mixing it up, has made it aware that all us guys need to use the hand also. For extra pleasure and like wrestling, I have locked the boys into my squeezing and scissored them as I climax. But this has to be carefully done, as when you climax the legs tighten around them.
Hi mate
You need to start using the traditional method also, this will increase the hardening and make it more pleasing for your gf. Then show her your method, everyone is amazed by the technique
See, I'm actually bi and did more with guys than with women when I was younger.
I would introduce my pillows every now and then.
My favourite position to involve a guy with my pillows is a 69.
You see, when I'm getting busy with my pillows, my legs are wrapped tightly, but pulled up towards my chest - like the foetal position.
With a guy in a 69, I like to begin with pillows and work myself to the point where my entire groin region is absolutely pulsating, then let the guy replace pillows with his head and I'll go in deeply.
I would then wrap my legs, not quite as tight, but enough to be erotic, and pump away until climax.
Mixing it up really can be incredible.
You sound like myself, get off squeezing the boys heads in a scissors as your penis is getting pulsed. Do you ever wrestle the boys? You get off watching the boys scissors?
You must be powerful with those scissors!!
I have seen plenty of videos with women in my favourite position, but not one with men doing it the way I like - very frustrating.
These days I just watch myself with my pillows in the mirror.
My clamping of legs is very strong.
I like the advantage of doing it with pillows - I can squeeze and grind as hard as I want.
Just ever so glad so many people read, understand and use the ANKEN method of masturbation it is just so fantastic I am 75 and been doing it for 69 years, my wife likes watching and cuddling
Yeah my clamp with the legs is stronger than most guys except, it helps using the legs to wank. Have you ever squeezed a guy in your legs as guy legs wank? I got a guy in a headscissors once and nearly popped his head
i tried so many times with normal masturbation i did'nt get cum
but when i did this it came
now a days i try tieing tip of penis with rubber band and go outside in public place i just tilt back my penis back and masturbate
only 15 sec that's it