hi, i have quite a problem with precum ... i lose erection everytime this fluid leaks out of my penis ... and this happens EVERYtime i have an erection...
i get an erection, then after a few minutes (or even a few 10 seconds) precum leaks out of my penis (it doesnt matter if i stimulate my penis or not) and i dont feel anything, the problem is that i lose erection a few moments after that ... because of this i cant have intercourse with my girlfriend.
this happens only when im with my girlfriend ... when i masturbate its all normal - i have little or no precum and i ejaculate and orgasm normally
im 19 years old, these are my first experiences (i havent had sex/intercourse yet), but i've been masturbating for 7 years now - always without such problems.
i'd be very happy if somebody could give me some advice, thanks
First of all, I don’t know why you are frightened by the pre-cum. Pre-cum is natural lubricant and you certainly have it even during masturbation but you obviously didn’t notice it since you have no worries during masturbation. Pre-cum must be there to help you lubricate the penis and the foreskin and it needs to be there before ejaculation to clear the urethral passage from urine so that sperm could go through without being burnt from urine acid.
So, pre-cum is not a bad thing, it is a good thing and it needs to be there. Not knowing this could have made a pressure on you and you were unable to hold your erection because of that. Just knowing this may help!
Relax and enjoy spending time with your girlfriend!
i'll try to relax and enjoy and then we'll see if it gets better
just one last thing to clear ... so,precum has absolutely no effect on erection? and so the only reason i'm losing my erection everytime i get wet is because i'm scared of it.
i really hope this will help, thanks again
I'll recommend you guys prepare your mind that you are gonna do it and its okay. And concentrate. The intial stages when you just get excited, you need to concentrate before you get to a stage when you're physically ready for it, i.e. all the blood is in there and its throbbin ;]
Case and point, most men are familiar with the fact that most mornings you wake up with an erection. Regardless of what the reasoning it is behind it, that is definitely one time you do not produce precum simply cause it's not a sexual thing. Therefore, without the production, you can sustain and maintain an erection.
I would talk with your doctor and request to speak with a urologist. There is nothing to fear but to find out what can be done.
Dont worry to much about it unless it fails to appear,you need it.
hope this helps. :-D :-D :-D
When my GF and I do foreplay for about 10 mins..I'll be fully erect.But my problem is,once precum starts comming out,It won't stop.It makes me lose my full erection too.We Occasionally do foreplay secretly,because I always have friends with me in our room.And sometimes when I'm ready to penetrate her,we do it in a discreet manner and I occasionally am in a very uncomfortable position in bed.I feel pressure in my abs and once I focus on my abs I lose the erection.But we tried one time in a hotel where no one can see us and everything was alright.Is something wrong with me?Or is it natural for my age?
HI Im 47 and I have had this issue since puberty. In my particular case, I get wet long before I get hard so I STILL have to masturbate to get an erection before sex. Even if I just 'think' about sex with my partner, I get wet - but not hard.i need physical stimulation to get hard and once im hard, im fine. I have seen my doctor (today infact) and he said it is almost CERTAINLY phychological. I just need to relax, think positive 'I CAN do this!' and all should be OK. I will update as and when. Happy Boning, folks! :)
I am male & married recently..I have a problem in erection during intercourse. I am able to get the erection during masturbation. But during intercourse, initially i am getting the erection after foreplay & blowjob. After i put the condoms & entered into vagina, when i try to move back & forth (i am not sure whether i am doing it correctly), i am losing the erection. Again i will have to try the forepaly & blowjob to get the erection & but still i am not able to keep the erection in intercourse. I have tried intercourse few times & but not able to do successfully. Can you please tell me what is the problem. I am really concern abt this, please help me. I am masturbating regularly..(almost daily for years)..Is that causing the problem..If so, if i stop the masturbation, will the problem get solved..Please help me to overcome this problem
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