I like sex alot but i have trouble getting wet now and i never used to. I sometimes do just outta nowhere and when we first have sex but after awhile im not anymore. Whats wrong with me? i have tried lub but i would rather figure out whats wrong with me cause it bugs me really badly. Anything you could suggest would be wonderful.
You know I am 31 yrs old..and have been with my husabnd for 13 yrs...When I was a teen I was always wet! But the last 7-10 yrs I am not wet at all! And when we have sex it's like being a vergin again....I just use kY jelly if need be....after we get going I get alittle wet...but if we change positions I get dry again! You know my doc told me that we should have more oral sex....But again she said ..that something mental is going right! And I have to admit our realationship isen't the best! Maybe thats your prob too.. I dunno! Check with your doc...see what they say! I feel your pain.....But don't put the blame all on yourself.....You'll just drive your self crazy! And also with me I have NEVER had an orgasim.....I can give myself one but I can't have one vaginaly....So I guess I am messed up in more way than one! Take care and hope this helps! I'm here if you have any other Q !!
Melissa
South Bend, IN
Melissa
South Bend, IN
so your hunsband didnt get mad at u just because u didnt get wet when u having sex