Hello! recently me and my ex-boyfriend, after 3 years, decided to get back together and try and work things out again. recently, we had sex. and now, i have a small lump on my lower vagina and my clitoris is swelled up and also very painful. the lump feels like an abscess because it is cut open and hurts when i touch it the slightest way. i'm worried because this lump and irritation has been there for almost 4 days now. can anyone help me out with any information?? if so, i'd be greatly appreciated. thank you for your time in reading this.