masturbating sucks it is making me lose my ways of getting a girlfriend!
Legend
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LOL ... Well, I don't think that masturbation has anything to do with your ways and methods of getting a girlfriend!
yes i know what you are talking about. i remeber i was very like focussed making jokes and such, a smooth operator, then bam i started masterbating and for years all i felt when i saw a hot girl is
1. i would look them up and down
2. wanna wip it out and u kno
3. FEEL EXTREMELY ANXIOUS
how to fix this, i know what u are talking about ...
so u do this
find a girl thats a friend, not so pretty, but like maybe smart or just a girl u find attractive but not overly hot and go about masterbating as usual and start talking to this person and create a friendship. Now what u have done is reestablished urtserlf and now u move on to a hotter girl u ketch the drift. cause i know that anxious feeling dude. Trust me try that and ur set. What was funny with me, is i actually attracted the not so pretty girl and ended up going out with her on a date once or twice. LOL but its all good like just regain ur confidence dog. Plus girls like 1 thing CONFIDENCE. If u can look a girl up and down flirt but dont seem needy or like ur gocking ur SET!!!
Give them compliments on what there wearing during the conversation they usually say thanks smile and/or blush cause they know ur looking etc
1. i would look them up and down
2. wanna wip it out and u kno
3. FEEL EXTREMELY ANXIOUS
how to fix this, i know what u are talking about ...
so u do this
find a girl thats a friend, not so pretty, but like maybe smart or just a girl u find attractive but not overly hot and go about masterbating as usual and start talking to this person and create a friendship. Now what u have done is reestablished urtserlf and now u move on to a hotter girl u ketch the drift. cause i know that anxious feeling dude. Trust me try that and ur set. What was funny with me, is i actually attracted the not so pretty girl and ended up going out with her on a date once or twice. LOL but its all good like just regain ur confidence dog. Plus girls like 1 thing CONFIDENCE. If u can look a girl up and down flirt but dont seem needy or like ur gocking ur SET!!!
Give them compliments on what there wearing during the conversation they usually say thanks smile and/or blush cause they know ur looking etc
yes i know what you are talking about. i remeber i was very like focussed making jokes and such, a smooth operator, then bam i started masterbating and for years all i felt when i saw a hot girl is
1. i would look them up and down
2. wanna wip it out and u kno
3. FEEL EXTREMELY ANXIOUS
how to fix this, i know what u are talking about ...
so u do this
find a girl thats a friend, not so pretty, but like maybe smart or just a girl u find attractive but not overly hot and go about masterbating as usual and start talking to this person and create a friendship. Now what u have done is reestablished urtserlf and now u move on to a hotter girl u ketch the drift. cause i know that anxious feeling dude. Trust me try that and ur set. What was funny with me, is i actually attracted the not so pretty girl and ended up going out with her on a date once or twice. LOL but its all good like just regain ur confidence dog. Plus girls like 1 thing CONFIDENCE. If u can look a girl up and down flirt but dont seem needy or like ur gocking ur SET!!!
Give them compliments on what there wearing during the conversation they usually say thanks smile and/or blush cause they know ur looking etc
1. i would look them up and down
2. wanna wip it out and u kno
3. FEEL EXTREMELY ANXIOUS
how to fix this, i know what u are talking about ...
so u do this
find a girl thats a friend, not so pretty, but like maybe smart or just a girl u find attractive but not overly hot and go about masterbating as usual and start talking to this person and create a friendship. Now what u have done is reestablished urtserlf and now u move on to a hotter girl u ketch the drift. cause i know that anxious feeling dude. Trust me try that and ur set. What was funny with me, is i actually attracted the not so pretty girl and ended up going out with her on a date once or twice. LOL but its all good like just regain ur confidence dog. Plus girls like 1 thing CONFIDENCE. If u can look a girl up and down flirt but dont seem needy or like ur gocking ur SET!!!
Give them compliments on what there wearing during the conversation they usually say thanks smile and/or blush cause they know ur looking etc
It's all really a creation from God, everything from our bodies and our minds and so on. If we have to commit to masterbation and the urge is too much well then go ahead and do it, but here's the secret Key to it all. First of all I got this answer by reading some articles from other people and then I put together my own thoughts and tried it myself (as in masturbated). But instead of thinking bad of myself I thought good of myself, and I thought good thoughts like,,, being in a beautiful garden, sitting by a river and floating by, even thinking about my future girl friend (I've never had one:( ), but not doing anything to her but thinking/saying to myself and to God and yes (Jesus) about all the good I'd like to do for her and say about her and want her to say back to me and so on,,,. And some other thoughts which were good,,, not one of my thoughts where evil or porn/erotic etc,,,It was all a very good feeling and experience, and I don't believe I sinned atall (I didn't hurt anyone, not even myself, nor God,,, unless did it too much etc,,,), and except I lost a bit of energy which I could always gain back eat healthy) but this way I felt more weak and it caused me to lean and ask God for more strength and in reality I asked Him about this + other stuff and He told me after I did (masterbated in this way "+ good thoughts") so that I could put it together for all of you!! Also it urged me to think about how it would really feel when I would be having sex with my loved partner (girl friend "the one") once we get married ofcoarse, and this way I would be thinking good thoughts while before I get married when I masturbate now in time, that way I'll be having even better thoughts when I actually use my sexual organs for the best reason (better to God's eyes) and that's to have sex with my loved partner, and at the same time while we make love,,, God' love will be surrounding us in a beautifull overcast and no one (Satan, you neither) can say it's all bad!!
So see people I just answered and pulled out the truth from God' wisdom and truth, and it goes well for both non Christians and Christians even more!! So people,,,stop bashing each other and saying this verse and that verse and thinking all these extreme thoughts! What I just said will truly help you as it's from God' mouth and typed by my hands into here, and it will keep you from thinking bad about yourself once you masterbate as long as it's controlled for periods of time (I'd say 2 days- 3 weeks matters on You). Amen!!
*I pray the peace of Jesus upon all who read this*
So see people I just answered and pulled out the truth from God' wisdom and truth, and it goes well for both non Christians and Christians even more!! So people,,,stop bashing each other and saying this verse and that verse and thinking all these extreme thoughts! What I just said will truly help you as it's from God' mouth and typed by my hands into here, and it will keep you from thinking bad about yourself once you masterbate as long as it's controlled for periods of time (I'd say 2 days- 3 weeks matters on You). Amen!!
*I pray the peace of Jesus upon all who read this*
You guys are faggots. Religions a joke, jack off as much as possible gods not going to damn you to hell, god doesn't exist neither does satan.