Well, last night i masterbated for the firs ttime.
And i serieously regret it.
I tried it because my bf just broke up with me, and we planned ot have a "romantic"" evening that night.
Well, i know its "Normal" but ive been reading about people getting addicted, and i really dont want to do it again. Of coruse, it felt great, but am i going to be hooked?
And i serieously regret it.
I tried it because my bf just broke up with me, and we planned ot have a "romantic"" evening that night.
Well, i know its "Normal" but ive been reading about people getting addicted, and i really dont want to do it again. Of coruse, it felt great, but am i going to be hooked?
Sorry about the breakup FiiZZ.
Just so you know, there is nothing wrong with masterbating as long as you don't do it like your getting an hourly wage. Masterbation is a normal and healthy way to rid yourself of stress and it's also a great "turned on" reliever when hub or bf isn't around.
No need to regret what you did, unless it's against your religion. A few times a week, maybe 3, is no big deal at all. An addiction is something compulsive, 24/7, all the time. I don't think your going to run to the bathrrom while your in school just to get yourself off. So don't worry, it's safe fun and it's harmless, well for the most part. When it starts to get weird like shoveing vacuum cleaner attachments in your vagina, i would start to worry. o.O
Just so you know, there is nothing wrong with masterbating as long as you don't do it like your getting an hourly wage. Masterbation is a normal and healthy way to rid yourself of stress and it's also a great "turned on" reliever when hub or bf isn't around.
No need to regret what you did, unless it's against your religion. A few times a week, maybe 3, is no big deal at all. An addiction is something compulsive, 24/7, all the time. I don't think your going to run to the bathrrom while your in school just to get yourself off. So don't worry, it's safe fun and it's harmless, well for the most part. When it starts to get weird like shoveing vacuum cleaner attachments in your vagina, i would start to worry. o.O
Don't get too down on yourself for masturbating.
At a guess, you were using sexual stimulation to attempt to fill an emotional space. Doesn't work like that - although a lot of girls link emotion and sex together - and they are quite separate, yet often related - states. Guys don't tend to do this so much, if at all.
If I'm right, the orgasm felt great at the time, probably left you feeling drained, and made the emotional void/sense of loss immediately afterward feel worse? Feeling empty? A bit guilty? (Hungry for junkfood?)
It's all very understandable, but try not to let your thinking be screwed up in this way.
A break up is a painful time. Try and move on, let time do its thing.
And remember: if you feel turned on, don't feel bad about masturbating. Those urges need releasing, sometimes. Anything from 2 or 3 times daily to once or twice a month is probably normal. (You'll likely naturally feel turned on less often when you're down, more often when you're up.)
But if you're feeling emotionally down, masturbation will not help, except briefly. It could even lead to psychological problems, if this was to become a frequent/habitual event.
How to know the difference? Well, only you can learn to know you.
You should masturbate (conditions allowing) whenever you are truly turned on, and don't feel bad about it.
At a guess, you were using sexual stimulation to attempt to fill an emotional space. Doesn't work like that - although a lot of girls link emotion and sex together - and they are quite separate, yet often related - states. Guys don't tend to do this so much, if at all.
If I'm right, the orgasm felt great at the time, probably left you feeling drained, and made the emotional void/sense of loss immediately afterward feel worse? Feeling empty? A bit guilty? (Hungry for junkfood?)
It's all very understandable, but try not to let your thinking be screwed up in this way.
A break up is a painful time. Try and move on, let time do its thing.
And remember: if you feel turned on, don't feel bad about masturbating. Those urges need releasing, sometimes. Anything from 2 or 3 times daily to once or twice a month is probably normal. (You'll likely naturally feel turned on less often when you're down, more often when you're up.)
But if you're feeling emotionally down, masturbation will not help, except briefly. It could even lead to psychological problems, if this was to become a frequent/habitual event.
How to know the difference? Well, only you can learn to know you.
You should masturbate (conditions allowing) whenever you are truly turned on, and don't feel bad about it.