guys i m in a serious help! look i have a boyfriend not boyfriend but ma everything.. we met about 5yrs before and since then we are in relationship.. we had many ups and down throughout the realtion.initially i was really very good to him and extremely polite.. we were 14 yrs when we met and fell in love but now we r 18 n the mindset of both of us is like a volcano.. he was a bad tempered from the very beginning but a guy how would love me like hell.. he love more than anything and i can swear of that... but the probem arises here that his every scolding to me make me upset and i also give him a bad reply.. he is fed up with ma replies and had told me many a times to stop it..
when all this quarrel happens bw us we both cry.. seriously cry but after that the same thing happens... i also feel that i have to do something with that.. when i handle him calmly then he also slows down in minutes but ma frustration boost his anger...
now he is angry with me and not talking to me for more than 2 hrs.. it means a lot to me as well as for him... i know he is very upset and he is not happy by doing this...
he is more like ma husband and he also consider me his wife.. he takes care of me whenever we r out.. he put a protecting arms over ma shoulders. whenever i m down he is always there we both are soul of each other.. it's our childhood love and i can not let it get spoiled... plz help me what should i do..
Hi! So many couples have this kind of relationship do you know? Sometimes they keep this kind of relationship for years, even for a lifetime...I'm going to be hard on you, if you allow me: Normally people relating like this unconsciously enjoy having the excitement of fight, the strong emotions that come with those arguments and extreme nice feeling you get when you make "peace". In fact you are both almost not in the puberty anymore, you are young adults and that's really a moment to change this. If continues like this is going to be no fun. i suggest you talk to him what specific things can you both do to avoid this, you have to cut this circle that you both are in for some years now. And is always good to find new things to do together that gives you both lots of fun.