Plan B/Go to Urgent Care and remember what you are going thru so you dont make the same mistake twice...daaahhhh but I understand that everybody has a weak moment! Miscarriage at 20 weeks...sweetheart I have been thru the same thing and it killed me at first...God does have a plan! I have four very brilliant and beautiful children! Although I may warn you that if you have four you ARE going to be extremely busy but it truly is worth the time and effort depending on your personal situation. Swollen Anus: If your using sex toys STOP! Or go see your doctor! Not very familiar with that one to be completely honest. I mean no disrespect!