Please dont listen to these pedophiles your daughters future is in your hands act NOW!!!! Or she could run away with him, suicide, or get pregnet.... PLEASE Kick his ASS and report him to the police if the government finds out you knew and didnt do aything about it they take her away from you
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ok this is what u should do do get your daughter back and turn her agensed him
speek to him and tell him he will be broprted to thr police if he doesnt brack it u p with your saughter and he will only not be repoter if he acts like he doesnt like her anym ore and say nothing about i telling u this
turns you daughter agensed him and gets him out of her klife with her still on your side
then heres the funny part...report him anyway..LOL
hope that helps (if it does remember to vote for me!!)
speek to him and tell him he will be broprted to thr police if he doesnt brack it u p with your saughter and he will only not be repoter if he acts like he doesnt like her anym ore and say nothing about i telling u this
turns you daughter agensed him and gets him out of her klife with her still on your side
then heres the funny part...report him anyway..LOL
hope that helps (if it does remember to vote for me!!)
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Hey now I'm only 17 wich is a few years older but when i had my first boy friend I was just so excited that someone even like me like that if this is your daughters first boyfriend maby it's the same way for her. Now it is a little sick that he's 24 but when alot of people are older and married they usually a few years apart. I think you should just keep an eye on her and try to get to know the Guy before you report him expecially if he is a sweet guy those kind of records stick with you.I think the hardest thing you could is just make sure your their for her if she gets dumped. Just talk to her and fallow your gut if you think this guy is bad news then take action.
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This is sick and disgusting you should report him. I know this is a little late but for other parents out here that have the same problme report this guy. If my son 24 year old son came home and told me he was dating a 14 year old I would report him myself. This 14 year old girl needs her butt wooped. You need to take her away from him. Older men tend to want only one thing, and little girls are so wrapped up in there hormones and (LOVE STRUCK) selves. The man most likely tends to become controlling trust me I know. My dad was 13 years older than my ex-stepmom and he was a penis to her. She was 19 when she had a kid with him. And now they are divorced. Anyways if your daughter gets mad at you and she threatens to run away or kill herself, then do what a responsible parent would do. Dont take her to a counsaler or a therapist send her to a bootcamp association. They are not harsh but her being there will make her realize that you were right in not wanting her with him. I hope my opinion is not to harsh but it gets through to yoyu parents.
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hey i went throught he same thing when i was 14. i was going out with a older guy. 29 to be exact. ur daughter is in a stage where she is very self concious. she just feels realy good that a guy is giving her attention. BUT LISTEN TO ME NOW, i got screwed up when i dated the guy. i lost my virginity, and he had so much control over me than anyone else.i ditched school all the time to be with him, i would sneak out at night and not come home until 5 in the morning. and when my dad would drop me off i would walk down the road to where he was waiting. i got screwed up on drugs, was sexualy active, i ran away alot and i turned agianst my family. everything was, they was wrong and that there words were sh*t. i grew up to fast. and i have to deal with alot of emotional problems now. dont let her continue please. im telling u now, if u do turn this sick bastard in of course she will have resntment agianst u. but its better than losing ur daughter forever. since my incedent me and my father havent talk. i put him in so much pain i cant stand to be anywhere near him.....please, please, please do this for her, and ur family. talk to her and not yell at her for this. but explain to her how great of a daughter she is. and how u love her. tell her that she doesnt need to be doing that stuff just to feel accepted. put that sick bastard to jail. hell influence her to do stupid stuff. and then how would u feel if ur daughter ran away and u never saw her agian? turn him the hell in. hands down.
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You know, you may think that when a guy is 24 they are a mature adult, But Guys mature slower then girls do and 24? he's still a baby himself. Try to get to know him and the relationship, think rationally. He may not be the predator. I dated some one way older then 24 when I was 15, and turned out I was the one that broke his heart. But he never hurt me in anyway emotionally or physically. I know that it sounds very wrong what I did. But really? think back when you were 24 were you a mature adult? So yeah, I suggest definitely take it slow and maybe just try to talk to your daughter first, and then ask to talk to her boy friend and figure out if its just sex or if it might be a good healthy relationship.
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i was 24 when my first daughter was born and now i'm a single father.. don't worry i like older women.. her mother is 6 years older than me.. this was origionally posted 4 years ago.. this girl is 18 now and probably working on her 2nd or 3rd kid cause her mother took the advice of someone and didn't report this.. this situation was illegal and immoral.. if anyone has a son/daughter that is dating a much older man/woman please be careful and do what you think is best for your child... you must put your child first and protect them from everything.. including themselves.
Dr. D
Pediatric Urology
Dr. D
Pediatric Urology
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I am 14 years old, yea he is old.. but if your daughter agreed to be in this relationship with him.. turning him in could wreck his life.. when clearly he hasnt done anything wrong.. talk to her, trust me we understand.. dont turn him in unless he is doing things she refuses to do.. 8-|
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Yeh this is obviously wrong but I think there are better avenues to choose than just reporting him. I would say that should be a last resort.
Best thing is to talk to your daughter. Let her know gently what you think, but make sure you know all the facts as well. Maybe they aren't like boyfriend and girlfriend; sounds unlikely but possible.
You've got to do whats right for your daughter and none of us here can tell you what to do.
Best thing is to talk to your daughter. Let her know gently what you think, but make sure you know all the facts as well. Maybe they aren't like boyfriend and girlfriend; sounds unlikely but possible.
You've got to do whats right for your daughter and none of us here can tell you what to do.
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oohh no...You need to be a parent and put a stop to that.***********************...something aint right in a mans head if he wants to be with a 14 yr old girl..
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Im 24 year old guy and i have same problem that i also love 14 year old girl but i never thinks any thing bad rude and i dnt wanna have sex until she is readdy for it i just love her and i mean mayb u people thints thats wrong but no i really love her. But no one r same but should talk wid that guy and find out if he for ur girl. if he is tell him wait 3-4 years and get back in relation and also tell ur daughter that she also need to wait.
hope she will understand
hope she will understand
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No this is wrong in so many ways and disgusting no matter what. It doesn't matter if you are IN LOVE or not. She is 14 for christs sake. She has more important things to think about some grown man that can and needs to go and find someone his own age. No teenage girl is going to wait I hate to say it but they are not. Times have changed and teenagers have sex. If you want to go to jail and her be screwed up in the head for the rest of her life then have at it. How does her parents feel about this relationship? You need to let this girl be a kid don't ruin her life with your immaturity and little pick up lines. Because no 24 year old is going to wait years to have sex with one little girl. I'm sorry if this is rude, but I have been in this situation and I hate myself for the things I did and you seriously need to think of her in this situation as a child. And her future. Even if you have to break her heart. She will thank you in the long run I promise. :-D
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I am sorry but you have to report him that is wrong, your worried for your daughter so take action and so the right thing I dont blame you. Because trust me she wont wait to have sex especially with a guy whos that age. I'm 16 and one of the only things girls who are that age have on there minds is sex *sorry* but this is true. Hormones run wild at that age. take this advice and use it i know girls who lost their virginity at 13 and look at me i kept myself together because of my parents and im still a virgin at 16 and nearly no one my age a my school is. Hope this helps you.
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Hi,
when i was 14 I was seeing my football coach who was 26. My parents found my diary one day and took it to the police and i was so angry at my parents at the time and hated them for years, as it went to court and they made me press charges against him- sending him to prison, i now see it was the right thing to do. I protested that we were in love and tried to protect him as much as possible. The police told me this is because i was "groomed".
I am now 23 and have kids of my own and absolutely would do the same thing, if not seriously harm the little b**tard! It turned out at the time that this guy i was seeing was also grooming and seeing other girls as young as 11.
14 is too young to understand how sick these people are. They are very clever and know exactly what to say and how to keep you sweet. Your daughter wont thank you at first, but trust me, when she grows up she'll understand why you reported him.
The guy i was seeing, no-one ever told on him until me. If your daughter doesn't come forward he could do this to other girls. Stop him now while you can. You dont know what hes done to her or for how long.
you must tell the police!
when i was 14 I was seeing my football coach who was 26. My parents found my diary one day and took it to the police and i was so angry at my parents at the time and hated them for years, as it went to court and they made me press charges against him- sending him to prison, i now see it was the right thing to do. I protested that we were in love and tried to protect him as much as possible. The police told me this is because i was "groomed".
I am now 23 and have kids of my own and absolutely would do the same thing, if not seriously harm the little b**tard! It turned out at the time that this guy i was seeing was also grooming and seeing other girls as young as 11.
14 is too young to understand how sick these people are. They are very clever and know exactly what to say and how to keep you sweet. Your daughter wont thank you at first, but trust me, when she grows up she'll understand why you reported him.
The guy i was seeing, no-one ever told on him until me. If your daughter doesn't come forward he could do this to other girls. Stop him now while you can. You dont know what hes done to her or for how long.
you must tell the police!
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