My girlfriend any I have been together for almost 2 yrs. I have been unhappy in our relationship for more than half of this. I understand that she is trying to get her meds regulated. I have been yelled at and have unending text message to the point that I can't do anything. I told her that this relationship isn't working and she needs to move out. She straightens up and tries to not be so angry and start helping out a little around the house. Then I start to feel guilty for not being in love with her and I given in. I feel trapped. What do I do? I created a miss by asking her to move in and helping her by a car and motorcycle. Now she can't afford to be on her own. I want my life back. Help!
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Determine if she has somewhere to go, like with family or a close friend.
If so, let her know its over and she has to move out. It's okay about the car and motorcycle. They can be repossessed. that is not a good reason to hold onto someone. Even if you helped put her into that mess, you and she chose not to marry. It is an arrangement that does not have to be honored. She can't cry about it. And you should not feel responsible for her, as she was ill before knowing you,and it's not till death do you part. she will have to find a place to work things through and hopefully will seek medical help that is actually useful. Meds don't do it, but cognitive therapy might work.
If she has nowhere to go, then help her find a place. Tough love bro. you need tough love too, from yourself. Don't let someone drain you of your life force. This kind of situation can make you sick over time. It's stressful, trust me. But f**k the car and bike, they are just things. She obviously shouldn't have shacked up with such a shithead who encouraged her to rack up debts she couldnt afford, so yeah, its because of you That she is in this mess. but She asked for it, and so did you.
no matter what, be a good man. Peace!
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