We have been dating for a while now, we are both in high school. He's really into having a good relationship based on love. I love him for that, but we want to move to the next step. Making out. He has told me that he wants to really bad. I am all for it, and so is he, but we have planned to make out. Then he well, wimped out and ignored me for literally an entire week because he was embarrassed. I'm okay with not making out right now. He told me that he feels like a failure and it sucks. I don't blame him because I feel the pressure too. Just please give me some advice. Like when is the best time to do it? Where should we do it? What should I even do when making out? Thanks!!(:
I didnt start making out for a long time too so don't feel pressure! Ease into it just like anything else. Just kiss him on the cheek or do a simple peck on the lips to establish contact like that. After you guys become more comfortable then you can experiment more. A simple step up is to just move your lips together. Like in the movies, one of your lips goes in between his and the other can be above or blow his lips. Just move slowly. If you're daring, add a little tongue by lightly licking his lip while kissing.
Remember, no pressure! This should be fun and exciting.
What I did with a guy that was like this was kept kissing him on the cheek.....he will get to where he is confident enough to kiss you more than just once. I am 16 and I know how guys are.