Me and my Boyfriend have been dating for over a year now and were both virgins. We've been trying to have sex but for some reason it just never works out. He usually can't keep an erection after putting on the condom or he cant get it in me before he looses it..Its become so frustrating that he wants to give up all together!! Is there any tricks we can try because Idk what else to do..I dont want to be a virgin forever!! Thanks for anyone who helps!! :$
Can he keep and erection while you give him hand/blow jobs? If it's only when he puts on a condom, then maybe try something to help his erection, like helping him put it on ;-) . otherwise, try out something like that new nazel delivery viagra or just plain ol viagra if you can get your hands on it. oooorrrr, just lots of foreplay.
Yeah well the erection is fine when we im giving him head or a blowjob its only when he puts the condom on that we have the problem..so i think ill deff try putting the condom on myself..thanks for the tip..by the way do you know if there is anywhere that I can find maybe wider condoms..cuz i think the problem may be that there too tight..and hes already tryed the Magnum XXL and there still too tight..but yeah thanks again for the tip..
hmmm... I guess you'll just have to look around. If you can't find anything to accomidate him, you might be able to just ask a chemist and they should be able to find something.
Hey, my name is Courtney and when I read your question I just had to help. I had the EXACT same problem with my boyfriend Andrew. We dated for so long etc. and wanted to have sex but we couldn't get his d i c k inside me. So finally we did! : ) and some helpful tips are make sure YOU are WET! The d i c k will take care of itself once you've put a condom and licked it. But the big problem is the girl not being wet enough, so if your really close with him, tell him to lick your p u s s y a lot to make every part of it wet. It will help a lot.! Also trust him a lot and know that it will not hurt but feel really great if you are relaxed! I would also recommend trying the guy on top position first and then doggie style. They're really easy and better for him to get deep inside. I hope this really helps! Message back for more help if needed. : ) Court.