My 25 year old boyfriend has no problem getting an eraction.. he gets one in the morning, he gets on when we just kiss, he basically gets one all the time.. when we are fooling around he can keep one exspecially if he knows sex is not able to happen for example its my time of month..but as soon as we go to have sex he begins to get soft or we will get to the point that we are having sex and he will become soft or limp after about 5-10 minutes. Why is this does he not want to have sex even though he is the one who suggest it 75% of the time?? He gets very discourage and upset when we are unable to i would just like to see if there is anything we can do hes very embarassed and doesnt even want to go talk to a docotor face to face about it. Also when we are fooling around ill be giving him a ha****b or something like that and wet stuff will come out of his penis but it is not him ejaculating what is this?? I have never had that with any of my previous partners.
well it happens to all of us some times. maybe he is just over hyphing it and as soon as he goes after it its not what he expected or to much of what he expected or maybe he is not comfortable with himself. I know every time i go soft like you had mentioned earlier its because i had been drinking or drank days previous of that so maybe alcohol could be one of the problems. Word of advice just always keep him moving during sex.