my bf of six years just admitted that most of his whole life hes been obsessively fingering his ass in the shower. I had no idea. It gives him a constant orgasm different from ejaculation and I understand. But is it "normal" for him not to have a boner while doing this? And how can I get him to let me do it?
Hi , im Bi , i think i know exactly where your coming from , the reason he dosent get hard is because hes concentrating on what hes feeling in his ass and he may be fantasising that hes being screwed and not thinking about his penis , have you tryed pushing your thumb into his ass while you are giving him head ? Just do it ! , you may find that he wants you to f**k him with a dildo , try giving him a poke while you are having a 69 with you on the bottom so his ass is in the air and he cant get away