my bf of 5 yrs jack off to porn all of the time...so now when we have sex he cannot cum..i am very hurt by this.i am a recovering drug addict and he still drinks alot we had good sex but now things have changed .i can get on him for 1 hour or let him do it the anal way and nothing works. i feel so bad about things i just need some ides i have talked to him.he does understand that this is causing a problem.........yet he keeps drinking and masterbating . does this all connect?................where do i stand?
I suspect the drinking is the main reason for his problem.
When my wife and I used to go out drinking I could last for hours inside her, after we got home. Sometimes I couldn't come at all and we just gave up when one of us became sore or tired.
Physically, the masturbating should only create a short time, temporary problem. I was a master masterbator and my gf could always get me another erection within 10 minutes after cumming the first time for the day. The third, fourth and fifth, etc. took progressively longer.
When my wife and I used to go out drinking I could last for hours inside her, after we got home. Sometimes I couldn't come at all and we just gave up when one of us became sore or tired.
Physically, the masturbating should only create a short time, temporary problem. I was a master masterbator and my gf could always get me another erection within 10 minutes after cumming the first time for the day. The third, fourth and fifth, etc. took progressively longer.