My boyfriend was fingering me earlier today and he was massaging my clitoris and it hurt SO friggin much. I'm just wondering why. It hurt the time before as well.
If a women is not turned on so much, rubbing the clit can almost be irritating. Some guys just don't get it, they rub and rub and rub thinking that their partner is going to get turned on. The clit is not a magic button. One can not press it and an instant orgasm happens.
Tell your bf he has to be gentle there, at least until you get ramped up.
Make sure there is some moisture there as well, either by your own natural lube or have him spit on his fingers. I know, eewww, but hey, if a guy can put his mouth down there a little of his own spit shouldn't be a big deal.
Tell him it hurts and to lighten the pressure from his fingers
Tell your bf he has to be gentle there, at least until you get ramped up.
Make sure there is some moisture there as well, either by your own natural lube or have him spit on his fingers. I know, eewww, but hey, if a guy can put his mouth down there a little of his own spit shouldn't be a big deal.
Tell him it hurts and to lighten the pressure from his fingers
My bf has a small tool & I can't really feel it, but I won't tell him. I'm still afraid that he has plenty of sperm cells that can get me pregnant, because he always cums quickly. Usually on the outside of the my vagina or vaginal hairs.