Hi. I am very depressed and nobody cares. My parents are always at work and my boyfriend is never here for me. Whenever I want to have a serious conversation he has to go somewhere else. I think he`s cheating on me. What to do?
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Hi. My boyfriend was never there for me and so I left him. I was really in love with him. But he didn`t care about me I guess. However, I have many friends. They care about me and I spend a lot of time with them. You can`t be alone. It is not right. You should talk with your parents about your problems. Find another boyfriend, the one that cares. Spend some quality time with your friends.
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That really depends. You say that you are depressed and that nobody cares. For "nobody" to care, you have to have a really really horrible life, like, living on the streets. If you are truly clinically depressed, then it is possible that you are not recognizing the things people do that show that they care. Sometimes depression can be a cycle of thoughts that you are going to have to break out of. What are these "serious" conversations? I am wondering if you allow your depression to depress those around you. I have had friends do that before, and even though I love them, it is extremely difficult to spend time with someone that is constantly talking about how sad and depressed they feel, and why, and that they feel helpless, this is frustrating becuase there is nothing that I can do to help them if they won't choose to allow themselves to be happy. I eventually cannot spend my time with them. It's different to be able to rely on your friends for support, and then to abuse their emotions. If you really have a depression problem, then you are going to have to force yourself to break out of it-take your bf to an amusement park, and a series of fun dates, and try to not talk about anything "depressing". See how he reacts. Take any depressing feelings to your parents and a psychologist and see if you can clear your head and get a good perspective on what is really going on.
If you are trying to talk to him about relationships, however, and talk about commitment and future possibilities, and this is the topic of your "serious" conversations, then I would worry about his trustworthyness. But from how you wrote your question, if I were you, I'd first pose this hypothesis to myself before I blamed my parents or my boyfriend.
If you are trying to talk to him about relationships, however, and talk about commitment and future possibilities, and this is the topic of your "serious" conversations, then I would worry about his trustworthyness. But from how you wrote your question, if I were you, I'd first pose this hypothesis to myself before I blamed my parents or my boyfriend.
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