Count your lucky stars...you could be like a person I know who had cliteromegaly, and when she was 10 her mother brought her in for a cliterectomy. Yes, right here in the US, genital mutilation occurs - without consent. After that, she was teased and shunned by the kids in her school (who had gotten word of something not-quite-right going on down there) and as a result she went from a very happy child to...well. Its a long story. Anyways. Be grateful. Keep what you've got. Be proud of yourself and all your body parts.
I understand your concern about having clitoromegaly and the desire to have a 'normal' clitoris. However, I don't think you should be worried. Having a slightly larger clitoris is not harmful. The important thing is to make sure your doctor helps you to properly manage yours PCOS through the use of the oral contraceptive pill or other methods. That way, the excess male hormones in your body will not lead to more side effects. PCOS is a very common condition. Many women develop an enlarged clitoris and other physical effects.
Many women feel self conscious about their bodies for a variety of reasons - unwanted hair, irregularly shaped breasts, facial features, and the appearance of their vagina and clitoris. Part of the reason is that we live in an age where everyone covers and modifies their bodies. Only some people appear nude in media, so this is our example of 'normal'. The reality is that there is a whole range of normal. Some women even have a penis! The important thing is to accept what is. You can't change your clitoris unless you decide to have surgery. If you really want to have surgery, this is not a bad option. However, you don't have to change for anyone except you! You will probably find that some sexual partners like your clitoris how it is. People who love and appreciate you will not be disrespectful of your body.
Hope this helps, take care of yourself!
Many women feel self conscious about their bodies for a variety of reasons - unwanted hair, irregularly shaped breasts, facial features, and the appearance of their vagina and clitoris. Part of the reason is that we live in an age where everyone covers and modifies their bodies. Only some people appear nude in media, so this is our example of 'normal'. The reality is that there is a whole range of normal. Some women even have a penis! The important thing is to accept what is. You can't change your clitoris unless you decide to have surgery. If you really want to have surgery, this is not a bad option. However, you don't have to change for anyone except you! You will probably find that some sexual partners like your clitoris how it is. People who love and appreciate you will not be disrespectful of your body.
Hope this helps, take care of yourself!
I wish mine was bigger .. But I'm how yours looks.. I wouldn't worry about it
Hi dear you, you don't have to be depressed. A Young man can be confused to see a huge clit but for men with experience a big clit is a stroke of luck. I have read that max. 10% of the penis-sizes are L or XL but only 1/5000 clits have XL size. Belive me, you have a valuable treasure.
I will only say, speaking from a man's point of view, it's beautiful thing. I have been with someone with the same issue, it's not a problem. It is wonderful.
Thank you for the knowledge
PCOS doesn't cause clitoromegaly, however the treatment can sometimes.
Let me explain something to you,,
Your big clit is very sexy. Most guys will love it, just explain it before you have sex. Say something like " hey, my clit is bigger than average, its very sensitive and it makes sex waaaay better for me, and that means morecsex for you"! !!!
Every guy would love to hear that. Just be up front about it so its not a SURPRISE for him to see.
Trust me your being sad about your awesome sexy hot clit is backwards. You should be happy and loving it.
Your big clit is very sexy. Most guys will love it, just explain it before you have sex. Say something like " hey, my clit is bigger than average, its very sensitive and it makes sex waaaay better for me, and that means morecsex for you"! !!!
Every guy would love to hear that. Just be up front about it so its not a SURPRISE for him to see.
Trust me your being sad about your awesome sexy hot clit is backwards. You should be happy and loving it.
I have always had a large clitoris & large puffy nipples.
From when I was a child I remember my clit sticking out & runbing on my panties. It always felt good. If I wore tight skirts you could see it. You could see my nipples too. I remember my friend asking if they could see it & touch it. I had no shame, not knowing that I was a little different. I was always very sexual from when I was young because of my clit & nipples being large. If I pressed my legs together I could cum but I didn't know that was what was happening when I was a child. Only as I got older did I realize it. When I would go for my annual gynecological exam I would have to steel myself or I'd orgasm almost immediately at the touch of the doctor. It was always the topic of conversation with the doctors & nurses. I had many tests but never did anything abnormal show. I just have a large clit & nipples, that's all. Because I am so sexual & get aroused easily I have used it to my advantage. I like wen I see people looking at my nipples or my crotch. Sometimes I like to where tight stretch pants without panties & no bra just so people will look. My nipples & clit get so hard from being aroused. It's fun to watch people's looks. Enjoy your difference & have fun with it. Oh and yes I had a child 47 years ago, had an orgasms during my labor & birthing. It was wonderful. I also nursed my baby until they were 4. It was all very stimulating, erotic & wonderful. Enjoy it dear, I'm in my 60's now & still enjoy when people look at my crotch & breasts. Life is grand. Eroticism is wonderful.
From when I was a child I remember my clit sticking out & runbing on my panties. It always felt good. If I wore tight skirts you could see it. You could see my nipples too. I remember my friend asking if they could see it & touch it. I had no shame, not knowing that I was a little different. I was always very sexual from when I was young because of my clit & nipples being large. If I pressed my legs together I could cum but I didn't know that was what was happening when I was a child. Only as I got older did I realize it. When I would go for my annual gynecological exam I would have to steel myself or I'd orgasm almost immediately at the touch of the doctor. It was always the topic of conversation with the doctors & nurses. I had many tests but never did anything abnormal show. I just have a large clit & nipples, that's all. Because I am so sexual & get aroused easily I have used it to my advantage. I like wen I see people looking at my nipples or my crotch. Sometimes I like to where tight stretch pants without panties & no bra just so people will look. My nipples & clit get so hard from being aroused. It's fun to watch people's looks. Enjoy your difference & have fun with it. Oh and yes I had a child 47 years ago, had an orgasms during my labor & birthing. It was wonderful. I also nursed my baby until they were 4. It was all very stimulating, erotic & wonderful. Enjoy it dear, I'm in my 60's now & still enjoy when people look at my crotch & breasts. Life is grand. Eroticism is wonderful.
I am sad to hear you are bummed out over all this. It must be a lot. It is your body.
I can only speak for myself here. If I was with a great woman, and she too had, "Clitoromegaly," such as you describe as well? To me it would make her even more attractive, and desirable.
I try not to fixate on what kind of girl I will get married to one day. However, all else being equal, I suppose this may even be my preference.
"Good looking curvy girls want to be skinny, skinny girls want to have curves." - This is a trap I see many people fall in. I have a friend recovering from kidney failure because she fought her, ever so slightly naturally hicker thighs, to be thin as a wisp. She is a total knockout to everyone but herself. But, she is relearning.
You feel 100% how you feel. Everyone in the world could not change this no matter what was tried. However, you can do whatever the heck you want, and this includes deciding you have, if you realize you do, been kinda blessed. I hope I do not sound insensitive, or blind to your reasoning which promoted you to post.
"Very lucky spouse," are the last three words I shall state of my own view as just another human.
I can only speak for myself here. If I was with a great woman, and she too had, "Clitoromegaly," such as you describe as well? To me it would make her even more attractive, and desirable.
I try not to fixate on what kind of girl I will get married to one day. However, all else being equal, I suppose this may even be my preference.
"Good looking curvy girls want to be skinny, skinny girls want to have curves." - This is a trap I see many people fall in. I have a friend recovering from kidney failure because she fought her, ever so slightly naturally hicker thighs, to be thin as a wisp. She is a total knockout to everyone but herself. But, she is relearning.
You feel 100% how you feel. Everyone in the world could not change this no matter what was tried. However, you can do whatever the heck you want, and this includes deciding you have, if you realize you do, been kinda blessed. I hope I do not sound insensitive, or blind to your reasoning which promoted you to post.
"Very lucky spouse," are the last three words I shall state of my own view as just another human.
Hi! I have the same problem! I'm so self conscious about how it looks down there. I was diagnosed with pcos when I was about 15. I have irregular periods and cyst like things in my ovaries. I just found out recently that it was the cause of my enlarged clit, deep voice, and much hair in facial regions and other parts of the body. I've been really insecure about these 'flaws' of mine and i'm just glad that i'm not completely alone at this. I'm thinking of actually getting surgery but now that i've been reading that a lot of people also have this; i decided not to do it. I just want to be happy of how I am. And if a man doesn't like my own baby bean penis, then he should find another vagina to put his penis in.
I also have big clit and im very happy to see all these comments.
Men wont complain
I cant belive a mother would do such a thing, its discusting.
i went in to be checked and the doctor thought i was going because of my mother.
I was in my mid 20s and had a massive medical background history.
he was so rude to me.
well in the end i had labia cut because i was uncomfterble.
well once the doctor saw my medical records he changed his tone with me and saw i was not messing around.
i have had 9 operations on my back, jaw, appendix, quite alot , my back was the worst.
ugh it was a horrible experiance but i had it done.
i went in to be checked and the doctor thought i was going because of my mother.
I was in my mid 20s and had a massive medical background history.
he was so rude to me.
well in the end i had labia cut because i was uncomfterble.
well once the doctor saw my medical records he changed his tone with me and saw i was not messing around.
i have had 9 operations on my back, jaw, appendix, quite alot , my back was the worst.
ugh it was a horrible experiance but i had it done.
I agree. Mines a hider, wish it was bigger