my ex girlfriend had planned on going to see a friend in texas about a month ago and before she did we had sex without a condom. and while she was down there she had sex with her friend while using the condom but it broke. she didnt tell me that she and done this or i wouldnt have done anything with her when she came back. but she took a test today and found out that she is pregnant. i dont know if im the father or if he is. he doesnt know about us having sex because she doesnt want to ruin a relationship with him by telling him but i dont know what to do because i dont know if its mine or not. i need some help and some answers.
The first thing she needs to do is try to figure out where she was in her cycle when she was with you. You could be the dad, as well as this other guy. Other than remembering where she was with her period schedule, or her ovulation days, the only thing to do is wait. The only way you will know for sure is to have a test done when the baby is born to see if he/she is yours.